Why is my girlfriend so jealous if it took me years to have a fulfilling relationship?

[Anonymous]

I've only had 4-5 relationships before I met her and I've been rejected many times, I've had unsuccessful dates. I told her about my dating past and she knows it. It is two years between my last relationship and this relationship with her, in which I had to deal with rejection and ghosting so many times. No girl approaches me unless I approach them. I am fulfilled with her, finally. I don't mind that she is jealous, but I'm not flattered either because I find it so ridiculous and far from truth. I am not a guy with exceptional looks or 'game'. You can't say girls like me now more because they know I have a girlfriend, because they don't. They don't know because I don't have to tell them. They never hit on me.

[Little_Bumblebee]

She's with you because she sees how great you are.
And she's scared that someone else might see that too.
So she gets jealous.

Also, a lot of men gain confidence when they are in a relationship (at least when it's not an abusive one).

But really, talk with her about it.
Make sure to show her you don't want someone else but her.

[Asker]

But I'm an "undiscovered gem". I'm not everyone's type and I'm not "great" with many people, only with few.
Yeah, maybe now I'm more spontaneous around women because I don't try to impress and get a girlfriend

[Anonymous]

unless they know you , there isn't much reason for them to be jealous you have a girlfriend now and doesn't seem like the girls from your past even knew you that well or that interested. so i wouldn't really worry about what they think now. its like you had a clean re start and able to move on with your life to someone else. isn't that what most singles want?

[SolitarySolace]

She, like many women, probably hate the idea of men struggling more than them.

[Asker]

I don't understand how. I just feel like I was a loser with women and she is jealous? haha

[boggboss]

Wait she is jelouse of what sorry

[Asker]

Of some colleagues of mine or some friends from when I was in high school

[boggboss]

She she is upset of past women u have known?

[Asker]

No. She is jealous of women I interact with now.

[boggboss]

Wait why

[Asker]

I don't know. She thinks they might be attracted to be

[boggboss]

Why would that matter

[laly520]

some r overly jealous