Should I help them get together (18, F) (17, M) ?

[Deeznutshahagottwm]

We have known him since we were kids and he dated my sister when he was 13 and EVERYTIME when she walks in, he stares at her and blushes. My sister wears a lot of shorts and skirts and she does work out often. She has a slender frame and she is cute I will admit.

My friend tells me that he has feelings for my sister and she told me she does as well but they want to see what will happen first.

[Summeroflove]

Yes. Try. But don’t push it if they say no. Absolutely. Here is something. Set them up on a “blind” date. But set them up gotgether lol

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, this is a tricky situation man. On one hand, it would be cool to set up two people you care about if you think they'd both be into it. But there's also some things to consider carefully first:

- Since you've known him since you were kids, you probably want what's best for both of them. Make sure rushing into something wouldn't mess up a good thing.

- They're still pretty young at 17-18. People can change a lot in their late teens/early twenties. Better to let nature take its course than force the issue.

- Your sister is your family - you don't wanna do anything that risks upsetting or embarrassing her. Make 100% sure she's comfortable if you get involved.

- Subtle hints are one thing, but directly trying to orchestrate something between them could backfire and make things awkward if it doesn't work out.

My advice would be to just keep hanging out with them together for now, try not to pressure anything, and let them explore their feelings on their own timeline. If something's meant to happen, it'll happen - no need to intervene too much yet. But you seem like a good brother for looking out for their happiness!

[Anonymous]

That is never a good idea. It could blow up in your face.