Is there something wrong with me?

[Anonymous]

I'm a nurse who works at a hospital. Almost all my nursing coworkers or supervisors have married or are dating policemen, doctors, firefighters, other nurses. Basically anyone who walks through the hospital doors. On the other hand, I can't even manage to get a guy to pay any attention to me. When i try to make eye contact with a guy, they dodge my eye contact. Guys aren't friendly to me at all. I just have no idea how these women get all these guys

[Drew-1990]

Maybe they took the shot or maybe you attract more shy guys. I can tell you if I saw an attractive nurse I would look away quickly out of fear she caught me staring. I don't normally want to bug the nurses because I normally assume they have many hit on them

[Truthatanycost]

As soon as I notice people comparing themselves to others then I know something is wrong...

[Asker]

so you're saying there IS something wrong with me

[Truthatanycost]

Not you, your mindset. It is a very detrimental mindset and will give you lots of problems in life. If your main motivation for seeking a partner only arose because you were concerned about others, that will create an energy that will do the opposite.

[Asker]

i want a partner, thats why i am comparing their abilities to mine. why are they able to get someone and why can't i?

[Truthatanycost]

Comparison is the thief of joy. As long as you continue comparing, that is what it will do.

[Asker]

it is only a thief of joy if you are too weak to face the reality.

[Booklover_90]

Do you want to be in a relationship to be in a relationship or to keep up with everyone else?

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes.