Is there something wrong with me?

[Anonymous]

I'm talking to this guy who I'll call B. well him and I have known each other since the 9th grade and we graduated high school in 2022. well we started talking a lot last year. but sometimes he'll leave me on delivered for days/weeks or he'll leave me on opened. if we see each other in public he will purposely not look at me even if we talked the night before. then we'll make plans to hangout and when the day comes he is ither "sick" or something happened. then he tells me to get my parents out of the house so he can come over, then when i tell him they're gone he goes MIA. I'm also a little person so I'm shorter than everyone else so i feel like he's ashamed of me because I'm different. and I opened up to him about my anxiety last week and since then he's been more distant than ever

[DoggyDude]

No. The answer to that question is always no.

It sounds like you have feelings for B, and it sounds like your reversing your feelings onto how he's acting (here meaning instead of dealing with him as he is, your trying to find some logic which adds up to your feelings for him being a good or bad idea.. which is not a good way to go).

I recommend what you do is to work out why his bahavious bug you etc. Work out what your wanting and talk to him aobut that.

From 'first impressions' it sounds like B is someone who wouldn't mind having sex with you, but isn't all that bothered otherwise. Though, misimpressions are easy to come by, so take that with a pinch of salt.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, you are failing at basic communication.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he isn’t into you in that way anymore, maybe lost attraction

[Avicenna]

No, looks like something is up with him

[boobliker]

your to young to worry about that