Could I go on a casual date with someone while I'm seeing someone?

[Mia230]

Me and the guy aren't together but we do relationship things, it's been about 6 months now going on 7 , I would like to be more but ig he's still undecided , long story short a old Friend asked me to the movies who is a guy. I'm not one to date around but I do get bored especially on weekends (no friends) would I be wrong to agree? I really like the guy but he gives mixed signals sometimes and it frustrates me

[Finchie40]

If you aren’t in a committed relationship with him , you can do what you want to do , it’s your life and your choice , if that guy wanted you all to himself then he would of made it clear to you that he wants you to be his girlfriend, but since he is giving you mixed signals , that isn’t your problem that’s his. So yes go on that date , and you don’t need to tell him shit , If the date goes well then you can tell him the truth that you went on a date , if he gets mad and upset just tell him the truth that you didn't commit to me so your loss

[Avicenna]

If you aren't in an exclusive relationship, you can do what you want, especially since the guy you're seeing can't make up his mind.

[Anonymous]

If after 6 months he is undecided about wanting more, the answer is probably “no”. Go be with somebody who actually does want to be with you and is certain about it.

[Mia230]

That's what I thought , I don't want to move on but also don't want to wait for him

[Opinion Owner]

I was in a similar boat as you, and it was frustrating. Everything seemed to be there and it felt like we could have been the perfect couple. But either he wasn’t ready or he wasn’t interested, and I chose to wait. I didn’t want to give up on what I thought could have been. But what could be, and what is, are two different realities.
I waited 10 years and I deeply regret it. But I’m happily with someone who wants to be with me and is certain about wanting to be with me. I just wish I hadn’t wasted so much time.

[Mia230]

Oh wow well thanks for sharing that especially while it's not so much time invested

[laly520]

wouldn't recommend it unless it isn't a serious relationship

[ChicoFromThe305]

You could, is it viewed the way you view it? Most likely not, if say if you move on, then move on, jumping back and forth will just look slutty.

[Mia230]

I decided I'm not doing it , I can't

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's not a bad thing, I'm glad you aren't able too

[NathanDavis]

you're not exclusive... not serious

you can stay casually... as you already are doing it so

[KrakenAttackin]

You will be leading on the new guy if you really have no intention of it going further.

[Mia230]

Yeah I did think about that

[bowenw]

If you aren't in a committed relationship, you can do can whatever you want.

[JacobJordan]

Let's rephrase your question so it is more accurate. 'Could I cheat on the guy I am in a relationship because we haven bothered to communicate and put a name to it despite it being blindingly obvious?" Answer: dump the guy he deserves better also spare the other guy.

[Mia230]

We aren't in a committed relationship he has not told me I am his girlfriend I have asked him and he said he is not ready

[JacobJordan]

And yet you both do boyfriend and girlfriend things. So either he is lying or an idiot. You don't do boyfriend or girlfriend things with someone that isn't your boyfriend or girlfriend. A huge part of your problem would be solved by simply refusing to accept the whole stupid shit 20 year Olds do "situationships" it is ridiculous. If you want a healthy relationship it starts by knowing what you want. And not accepting less. Otherwise you'll chain silly things and bad choices for years just because you want to feel good

[shortster]

As long as you aren't official or exclusive it is okay. However, if you want to get him to make a decision; maybe you should ask him if he wants to become official or if you should go on a date with the other guy.

[noohair]

That is a question for one person. The person you are seeing.

[Slapmynuts]

I would do it! He hasn't made the commitment like you have so why not? Don't put your life on hold for someone who doesn't have the same commitment as you!😁

[Nice222]

Definitely go on another date. You will have fun a the first guy will quickly make up his mind a most likely get more serious.

[jahaims]

It's been 6 months move on

[exitseven]

I would take a pretty dim view of that.

[Anonymous]

No , absolutely not