Should I tell my date about my Aspergers?

[JamieRobinson1994]

I’ve been on 2 dates with this girl and after those 2 dates she text me asking me if I had ‘disability’. I do have Asperger’s but it’s not something I just all tell anyone especially a girl because when you tell someone you’re on the spectrum then just see the ‘disability’ rather than the person. Do you think I should’ve told her on our dates? How should I reply to that text?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I would like to know, so I would understand you more, as to why you do things you do, that otherwise I could have misinterpreted.

[AngryCarl]

Why wouldn't you tell her? Why would you keep something like that secret form a girl you're dating?

[JamieRobinson1994]

I would’ve told her but there’s time and place. So much misinformation and propaganda about autism or adhd actively get spread online

[AngryCarl]

It could be worse though. Like if you were bipolar.

[Anonymous]

I say wait til you know more about her and go on more dates.

[JamieRobinson1994]

I would have but she already asked. I guess the masking didn’t last too long.

[laly520]

yes

better keep it honest

[Anonymous]

It might be time to tell her if she is asking.