My ld boyfriend did not reply to my messages in the evening. Then in the morning I found out he slept at hotel and he was too lovely to me. Cheated?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh girl, red flags all over this one! Not replying to your messages and then sleeping at a hotel is so shady.

If he's usually really good about keeping in touch and then goes radio silent and gets a room somewhere... I'd be willing to bet money he wasn't alone. Cheating is the first thing that comes to mind.

I know you don't want to believe the worst, but protect your heart here. The fact that he's suddenly being super sweet also points to guilty behavior. Guys don't do a 180 like that for no reason.

I'd sit him down and have a serious talk. Tell him his behavior raised suspicions and you need honesty. Watch his reaction - if he gets defensive or hesitant to explain, that's as good as admitting it.

Don't let him turn this around on you either for "not trusting him." His actions are the issue, not your feelings. You deserve loyalty from your man.

I'm sorry girl, but it's really not looking good. Prepare yourself just in case, and trust your gut instincts on this. No one's too busy to text their girl, you feel me? Stay strong - you'll get through this! <3

[firenine909]

It’s possible. Unless he was going on a trip no reason to randomly sleep in a hotel

[Asker]

He said it was cause of competition next day but he only told me about hotel in the morning. He told me he did not contact me in the evening cause his grandma was really sick but I don' t know the fact he only told me in the morning and was too affectionate makes me believe something is off

[firenine909]

What competition? He seems like he’s hiding something

[Asker]

Golf

[firenine909]

Like gold guys? Hmm I’d say believe him unless you have more concrete evidence

[firenine909]

Golf

[Kelly6]

Sounds like it

[laly520]

yes possible