Is it weird or a good thing if the guy I’m newly dating always calls me to vent about things?

[Anonymous]

He calls me often but lately he will randomly call me to vent about something frustrating at his work or maybe an issue with a guy friend. Why would he do this? Does he feel comfortable with me? We have been dating 3 months or so now.

[Anonymous]

This isn’t going to work out. Women don’t tend to respect men like this. They tend to see men like this as weak, a bitch, especially if he’s complaining about stupid bullshit. Because in essence women see men as protectors, so when he’s acting this way which is how a lot of women usually act, they don’t like it. Just the fact that you’re asking this question tells you something doesn’t seem right. You’re not sure what it is but there’s something there in the back of your mind.

[tremendousfern]

He probably does feel comfortable with you. I know I only vent frustrations to people I've gotten fairly comfortable with. If it's weird or not is entirely up to you. We're not dating your boyfriend, you are.

[firenine909]

Not good usually. It’s good he trusts you but it’s pretty clear the guy has a lot of issues too