I think I need help every guy I meet I sleep with. What can I do?

[Anonymous]

[lightbulb27]

are you the type that doesn't like to be alone?

seeking validation of worth... low self esteem?

Being a doormat is a bad place to be... you aren't the only one, sadly.

Spend time figuring out why you do what you do... the root causes of that. then work on addressing the root causes.

that will take several years... and after age 13+, it's mating and reproduction season well into 40's plus work to survive. So you'll have to... as they say... work on the airplane while it is flying... and hope for the best... unless you can "land" and take a break and work out your stuff, and start again.

An "easy" solution is to "become a Christian" (or whatever), and that is no longer your value. that way you have a value to fall back on. I'm not saying Christians/Catholics don't sleep around, it's a matter of your committment.

[Dongie]

Being a Christian is the hardest thing I've ever done.

[lightbulb27]

@Dongie yes it is. so cut yourself some slack, you are human...

[Dongie]

Thanks man.

[Summeroflove]

The fact that you recognize it’s wrong tells me you’re not beyond hope. If you feel ashamed of what you do, guilty, dirty, etc it means you still have a conscience.

I think you need to pray and ask God to forgive you. You also need to fast at times. This helps bring the flesh under control.

[Summeroflove]

So a coward above she asks me a question then blocks me so I’m not able to respond to it… typical cowards. Scared of a persons opinion they don’t even know.

[Summeroflove]

I can’t say the name. Let’s say unhelpful heifer

[HelpfulWoman]

XD gay man on a fake account is so easily spotted its crazy.
yet the men on this site STILL fall for it XD

[Summeroflove]

Claim to be a liberal… make homophobic comments. Typical

[HelpfulWoman]

@Summeroflove liberal? homophobic?
typical of a American to make claims with no basis. I'm not being homophobic, I'm pointing out the obvious troll and idiots falling for them XD I have no political alignment. stop projecting boo <3

[HelpfulWoman]

@Summeroflove could you point out which question you're referencing please? I'm interested where that view came from for you.
Also, I will actually apologise for the projecting comment. It wasn't necessary.

[Finchie40]

You just like sex , just be careful

[RavVid]

Why does this happen?

Is it too much alcohol and you don't care after x drinks. Do you get horny and need sex? Is it attention you want.

Do you only sleep with guys you date or do guys in the street have a chance.

For us to help I think you need to tell us more around what you are getting from sex. For us guys we want to ejaculate in a girls vagina but for a girl iit could be more than physical pleasure.

[Alex-Snow]

It is not about needing help it is a little bit about self control. Hopefully you are using birth control every time? How is the sex when u do have it... good orgasms every time? Maybe just masturbate before a date which may mellow you out a bit. Ur thoughts?

[lucas262]

Well 1st thing 1st don't sleep with a man your not married to. He's promised you nothing but your giving him everything. What right has he to your body? At least in God's eye it'll look that way,

I expect to have as much a right to her body as she does to mine once we've sworn our lives to each other.


I think women have forgotten to value themselves and instead have been tricked into valuing their devaluation.

[OddBeMe]

Well if you’re finding this to be a problem, and can’t stop…that’s an issue. Is it safe sex? Unsafe sex is actually a trait of mania.

Why can’t you stop from fucking these douchebags? Obviously they’re douchebags or you would keep dating one of them.

[strateguy632]

if you realize that is bad, then it is only in your hands to choose.

perhaps decide to wait until wedding.

[Joshydavid25]

Find out why do you it, and start doing steps to cut the the root of it.. Then develop a routine that starts discipline, and set boundaries for yourself and the guys are date.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Why don't we grab some coffee and talk about it?

*ba-dum-dum CHING

[Dongie]

Like that. I started to ask for her number.

[HelpfulWoman]

Noooooooooo Boop! Don't fall for it! XD

[BoopBoopBeep]

@HelpfulWoman How else do you net the catfish?

[QuickToAsk]

Schedule an appointment at talkspace. com or a therapist at your healthcare provider.

[slatyb]

Use condoms and birth control. Why is this a problem?

[Anonymous]

Guys hardly get any Sympathy for being Shy or being Depressed, But you expect Sympathy because your Sleeping with too many Guys.

You do need help that's for danm sure.

[Anonymous]

Well I could help you but I think we'd need to meet first.😆

[Jmmmfi4]

STOP BEING A FUCKING HOE

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Become a freelance therapist.

[exitseven]

We should talk about it

[DarkLegacy]

If you are fit, when can we meet

[KrakenAttackin]

"Hoes Anonymous".

[Friendlybro79]

Get therapy from a female therapist.

[Yannae]

Learn to say no to them and yourself.

[Dongie]

Start charging'em.

[noohair]

Do you want to change?

[Hanrej]

How is this a problem?

[Twalli]

Don't flirt with them.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Its okay every woman is a 304.

[Tstrbrainer]

Meet up with more guys?

[laly520]

seek therapy

[JacobJordan]

Too late.

[jahaims]

Go to therapy

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes you need help

[BarryLiverstone]

https://www.betterhelp.com/

[lildkman1010]

What do you mean

[jimmy2]

Love to meet you