Please help guys, what should I do?

[Dysney1023]

Hi please help! I am so confused. So this guy is super kind and friendly and has done a few too many favours for me. But doesn’t open up. Since he hasn’t opened up does this mean he isn’t interested in me? He asks a bunch of questions about me though. He even shook my hand and held it for a while and said wow after. Lol. Is there anyone out there with a similar brain to this man’s? Does he have feelings for me? He also does the eyebrow raise as well when I look away. Like 😧 I don't know. It’s not like I have spinach in my teeth. I check. And he shows me things and comes closer to me when he does. I am so starstruck by him. The only thing is he isn’t opening up. Is there a reason for this? Do guys do this as a protection thing? Or does he not want to get invested? Please help me! Thank you so much!

[8UniquelyBoring8]

Hi there! It’s difficult to say for certain what this guy’s intentions are without more information. However, here are a few possible explanations for his behavior:


1. He may be shy or introverted, which could explain why he’s not opening up. Some people simply take longer to feel comfortable sharing personal information with others.


2. He may be interested in you but unsure how to express it. Some people get nervous around their crushes and struggle to find the right words.


3. He may be a kind and friendly person in general, which could explain why he’s done favors for you and asks questions about you.


It’s important to remember that everyone has their own unique personality and communication style. Some people may be more guarded than others, especially when it comes to personal matters. However, if you’re interested in getting to know this guy better, it might be helpful to find a way to break the ice and put him at ease. You could try sharing something about yourself to encourage him to do the same, or ask him more specific questions that might prompt him to open up. Good luck!

[Dysney1023]

Thank you so much for the super insightful advice :)

[8UniquelyBoring8]

Your welcome, I’m glad I was able to help ! 😁

[RealMarek]

He might just be shy. If that‘s the case you might need to give him a nudge like asking him to get coffee with you and see if he opens up and takes initiative from there. Alternatively, he might just have strange mannerisms, view you as a friend, etc. If you would like him to ask you out, I would recommend making it easy for him by giving a little nudge.

[Dysney1023]

I will give it a try. I’ll keep you posted haha. Thank you for your insights

[RealMarek]

You’re welcome, and good luck!

[SnowedIn]

Are you asking questions and he's deliberately not answering? If not, then you need to politely say, "I'm so sorry that I'm doing all the talking. Tell me about you" and then add a question after that that doesn't have a yes or no answer.

[Dysney1023]

Yes. I ask him questions about his family or his interests.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes, we do that as a protection thing. That is correct.

[RHK36]

Ask him

[Dysney1023]

Ahhhh. I am too shyyy. 🙈

[RHK36]

Better to experience rejection than to experience regret of not asking or finding out.

[RHK36]

If he doesn't notice how great you then you're better off without him.

[Dysney1023]

Ahh maybe I’ll give it a try