Please help me what shall I do?

[Lollypop24]

So i ve been datin this guy for months now and lately he seemed always busy and so and i have the feeling that he lost interest in me.. its been a long while since last time we went out for dates yet he still cares for me (like he does to others) barely flirt with me.. now that i am quiet depressed, i told him that he is making me feel lonely and this was his answer:
"Try to foccus on your studies or like find any sort of activities to fullfill your time and it would be beneficial for you and you ll see i ve never meant to be careless "
He made me feel like i m wasting his time while i already have lot of things i m doin already.. that made me feel hella upset it's like
He feels bored with the relation.

[Anonymous]

You can’t depend on people to make you feel happy or un-lonely especially when you are depressed even more so if you are depending on that person all the time I know this first hand because I have been severely depressed and slipped into that really dark place of not wanting to be here during that time I depended on my friend a lot totally unaware that they too were secretly battling depression I didn’t know they were battling depression because they always seemed happy and they would give me advice about focusing on other things

[devilish-cutie]

maybe he didn't realize the seriousness of the problem. Maybe talk to him in rl about it as you wrote all this here now. If afte that he doesn't get it and you still dont feel cared enugh for, maybe its time to q your relationship. Maybe you have more needs in it than he does. if he can't accomodate those needs his role as your boyfriend is not being filled and holds no true purpose and therefore you should end it to be able to find someone that can.

[horatiohornblower]

You're a person who likes to spend a lot of time with their partner. He isn't. That's just differences in personality. Nothing will really change that as it's a part of who each of you are.

You can try shining light on it in a way that isn't blaming using "I statements". Rather than "you statements". To make it less accusatory. So, he isn't placed on the defensive.

If it's just not a move he can make. You may consider moving on.