Is this a petty reason to break up?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend recently picked me after not seeing him for a week and his car was filthy. He had McDonald’s, Burger King, subway bags in his passenger seat and he apologized and threw it on the floor. His house is the same too. He has clothes all on his bed and in his kitchen the trash is full to the top and there’s trash on side of it. Before I ever went to his house he had some cleaning to do and I saw him taking out three huge bags of trash from inside that had nothing but fast food in them. its gross.

[OlderAndWiser]

Neatness vs sloppiness is a dichotomy that divides many people. Those who keep their homes and cars orderly and neat tend to be uncomfortable living in sloppy and unkempt conditions.

If you are dating with the goal of finding a long term partner, and you aren't willing to live in sloppy conditions for the rest of your life, then it makes sense to end the relationship, because it has no future.

[lightbulb27]

Its serious prob. I've seen a person like that change. Can give chance or move on if big proj…

[Paris13]

You already Knows how it Goes when you Have Been with Him for Awhile. He won't Change. xxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks To Gag. xxoo

[laly520]

from the way u described it u seem to be almost sure to end it