Is this a valid reason to breakup?

[kareenakapur]

My boyfriend of 6 years decided today that he feels that we have no common interests. We both are in medical school, like watching tv, same religion (different sect) and same ethnicity. We both like to fuck lol I like to sing dance play violin. Big girly girl. He likes video games and watch anime. I watch anime and play video games with him when he wants. I never thought having different interests means we are not compatible. Do you guys?

[ohshee]

When is he finish with school and when do you finish school to be honest with you I think he's going to blow it I see this a lot with guys they go to school and get a degree once they have that piece of paper they think they are King shit and they walk away from the woman that supported them all this time did mage it possible for him to even go to school and graduate and get that degree I can hear it in your words you are the very beautiful person you have a very beautiful heart I hope that he does not walk away from you but if he does I have no doubt in my mind that you will not only make it big time there's something special about you that's all I can say

[kareenakapur]

Thank you we graduated high school and college together. Both graduate med school in 3 years. I always fear that he walks away. His parents and mine don’t like me and don’t know we have been dating for 6 years oops

[kareenakapur]

Sorry my parents like me lol his parents don’t like me but both our parents don’t know we have been dating so I’ve been begging him to tell his parents

[kareenakapur]

So he said he’s just stressed about that and didn’t want to break up

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BIASED MHO

[ohshee]

Well that's cool.
But one day. he's going to have to do something to tell his parents. My mom has never liked any girls that I introduced her to and I would always tell the girl when I introduce you to my mom she's going to have this whatever look in her eyes because she doesn't like any girl that I've ever introduced to her as a matter of fact it was one time introduce my mom to some girl in about 20 minutes later my mom tells me that my friend is a pot smoking red cherry hooker. I thought I was going to pee my pants I laughed so hard I asked my mom I go you've known her for 20 minutes and that's all you've gotten out of that this is your Genius Mom how did you know I can't believe you can read people so well if you was what do you mean I said she is a pot smoking red cherry hooker she charged me $5 just to bring her here. And then she looked at me like what did you just say. I said yep $5

[OlderAndWiser]

If your interests are too dissimilar, you may lose interest in each other eventually. It is also very possible that he is not telling you his "real" reason for breaking up.

[kareenakapur]

Yeah I feel like there has to be more to it. We’ve been long distance for almost 6 months I feel like that’s it

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe he got tired of LDR and either wants to find someone local to him, or he has already found someone else.

[kareenakapur]

Yeah that could be it just wish he’d be upright

[SnakeBoop]

"i want to break up" is a valid reason to break up. Better to leave than be unhappy.

[kareenakapur]

That’s true I just want to know if there’s any way to be happy without that. Like I try to show interest in what he likes. I just don’t know what he wants. But I want him to be happy and if that’s not me then it hurts but I understand. Just like 6 years later he realizes this is an issue lol

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BIASED MHO

[kareenakapur]

Ngl GAG picked this as MHO didn’t realize they automatically choose in a week @legendaryicon

[The_Maphio]

A lack of compatible interests also limits the topics of discussion and talking with one another is a must when it comes to living together as a life-long lasting couple.
It's a bit sad that this had to happen after 6 years together, but it is indeed a valid reason to cut a relationship short. Try to discuss the matter some more, find a point in common and see if you can salvage the situation. 6 years are a lot of time to just toss behind one's back.

[slatyb]

People don’t need a reason to breakup, they need a reason to continue. He decided that he didn’t want to spend his life with you.

[kareenakapur]

Very Wise words

[Paul09]

You are religious and you fuk before marriage? Oh boy, your gods will be mad. Lol. Sometimes having too much in common can be boring. Mixing it up is fun. Learning something new from the other is fun. Experiencing new things together is fun. You have none of that? Or he is a a-hole, and maybe now interested in different women. Age can change your taste too.

[kareenakapur]

I asked if he has common interests with other girls actually because I was thinking the same. We are long distance right now :(.

[RobT312]

I think it’s a valid reason, you need to be compatible! However I’m having problems with 6 years. he should have figured that out well before 6 years.

I think couples know within 6 months if they don’t have anything in common

[kareenakapur]

Yeah I agree like I know we have differences but I thought it’s fine: he likes his things I like mine. If he felt that way should’ve told me couple years ago at least lol. But we talked and seems like he wants to stay together but I can’t tell if it’s just out of habit he wants to stay with me and the good sex lol

[RealMarek]

This situation is difficult. He might not be telling you everything (from your description it seems you have at least a few common interests). If he’s going to break up, at least he’s doing it now while you’re still young.

[kareenakapur]

Yeah he said he’s just stressed because I keep bringing up marriage but he wants to stay together not sure if out of habit or whatever.

[RealMarek]

If you want to get married and have a family, it is important to be with someone who wants that too. If he’s not ready yet after six years, he needs to be able to commit to being ready soon so you don’t spend the rest of your 20s waiting.

[kareenakapur]

He wants to be married just we’re both in our early 20’s. He thinks that’s too early to be married but we’ve been together hiding from our parents for 6 years lol. I just want them to know and us to not be a secret

[RealMarek]

Has he told you when he will be ready to marry? There is a huge difference between 26 and 30.

[noohair]

He might be making a big mistake and he has to do it to find out. It is good for you to know too.

[kareenakapur]

He hasn’t said he wants to break up yet but feel the vibes he just says “idk”

[qwert1234]

Every reason for breakup is a valid one.
If someone just wants to end it w/o any reason - that in on itself is a valid reason.

[Seangreen]

It's over for him and he either wants someone different than you or already has someone else lined up

[kareenakapur]

He’s now saying he was just stressed because I keep bringing up marriage and like we are long distance for past 6 months. He said he never wanted to break up with me just randomly mentioned we have no common interests and have nothing to talk about lol

[Seangreen]

He's stalling

[kareenakapur]

Yeah that’s how I feel but don’t know how to reallg know

[Jcrummy98]

Maybe he get bored with you and want to explore new partner. I don't think it's a valid reason to break up.

[kareenakapur]

We are long distance so I think that’s what it might be. It’s hard

[LegendaryIcon]

comes down to if you and him want to have kids. that's the ultimate point of a relationship. offspring

[kareenakapur]

I want kids and he doesn’t right now but thinks he will later lol. I hope it changes later

[LegendaryIcon]

Not cool hun

If you know he doesn't, why are you with him

[kareenakapur]

He says he’s young but probably will want them in the future. I don’t want kids right now either but know I will want them one day

[LegendaryIcon]

You still aren't listening to me, you even chose another biased mho

[ashish804]

its like he got bored of fucking u and now he is getting a new girl to bang

[kareenakapur]

Lol he’s not bored of fucking I can tell you that. That’s the one thing we got going for sure

[ashish804]

fuck u don't know that people don't breakup due to reason that he is getting to fuck amazingly.. but this lame excuse tells us clearly that he got more variety of chicks to bang

[kareenakapur]

Lol I’m the hottest so I don't know who he’d be Trynna bang

[ashish804]

lol u may be hotess but the kinks u have and others may have difference

[kareenakapur]

I do all his kinks lol

[kareenakapur]

I’m a very generous girlfriend lol

[ashish804]

u should dm me and i will tell u more about it

[kareenakapur]

Lol I have a man why would I dm you

[ashish804]

lol u know more about man😛

[ashish804]

*to know more about man

[kareenakapur]

I know plenty no thank you lol

[ashish804]

lol... if u knew plenty then he won't be breaking up with silly reason

[888theGreat]

If he thinks you don't , then you don't

[In_Trance]

yes it is

[htmndg183]

Nope.