Would it be petty to break up for this reason or is it not my business?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is friends with this guy and a girl, I met both of them on different occasions. His girl friend is married while the his guy friend is single. They've been hooking up together and my boyfriend supposedly was the one who set them up together. My boyfriend brung me around both of them in the past but I had no they were messing around. I knew nothing about it until the word got out and its making me look at my boyfriend different.

[Jessikaah91]

Honestly that's a shitty thing to do on your boyfriend's behalf but I don't think "breaking up" would be the solution anyway, he didn't really do anything to you and hooking them up or not his friends made the decision to go there so technically they should be accounted for.. maybe just stay out of it so it doesn't come back and bite the both of you in the ass.

[DishLady]

WHO messed around? Who cares if your boyfriend connected this guy and this girl?

[Anonymous]

Did he get them together so that she could cheat with the other guy?
If so, questionable behaviour and you might well question his morals and values.

[Sasquach]

It's never petty to breakup due to conflicting values

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the sea of relationships, we often run into waves that test our balance. Discovering that your captain, a. k. a. your boyfriend, has been setting sail for other ships, specifically facilitating a connection between his friends that crosses boundaries, can definitely rock your boat. You're not being petty here; you're protecting your values. If you feel like your moral compass is spinning because of his actions, it's not just about meddling in others' business. It's about him showcasing a side of his character that you're now seeing in a new light. Trust and respect are the anchors of any relationship. If his actions have made you question these essentials, it might be time to navigate your own course. Remember, your feelings are valid, and choosing to be with someone who aligns with your values is crucial for your happiness. 💘

[HelpfulWoman]

so your boyfriend is friends with cheaters? WHY WOULD YOU STAY

[avery58]

It was a very crappy thing of him to do