Looks like I annoyed him too much. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

Him and I had a date on Friday last week. It ended up with making out, but I didn't want to continue cause we had an agreement to meet in hid home on Monday. Looks like he didn't like this continuation.

On Monday he acted differently... like those plans we had weren't going to happen. And they didn't.

I was asking hin what's wrong ever since. He kept saying that it's his financial problems, his problems at work and etc. And that I irritate him asking the same over and over again.

On Wednesday I told him I'm feeling insecure cause I'm traveling abroad and will be there for an month and I believe he is going to forget me.

He said I should stop with this crap and that I'm annoying already.

Saw him last time on Thursday and texted briefly yesterday with "you can call me later if you want"... he said OK.

Do you think it's over?

Updates

+1 y

He didn't call.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh girl that sucks, I'm sorry that's happening! Guys can definitely be moody sometimes. A few things could be going on:

- He may have realized he's not that into you after your date and is pulling away slowly instead of being direct.

- Your insecurity texts could have come across as a lot and pushed him off more by seeming "crazy". Guys don't like feeling pressured.

- He may also just have a lot on his plate with work/money issues going on like he said. Stressing him out too.

- Or he was probably only looking for a hookup on Monday and wasn't really tryna take things further romantically with your trip coming up.

At this point I'd give him some space sis. Stop hitting him up for a bit so he doesn't feel annoyed. See if he reaches back out on his own when he's less irritated by everything going on.

If he doesn't, then take the hint it's probably over. But play it cool for now - don't add to his stress! Things may calm down once you're both less on each other's case :)

[teamvic]

Move the hell on that's what

The dude is already calling you annoying as fuck BEFORW gall even date. Like the beginning of relationships and prior to getting in one is supposed to be that PEAK. Where everyone's happy. And feelings are at their highest. Home boy is being an ass and calling you annoying

You would've never been happy anyway

Move on buddy

[Violet_78]

That doesn’t sound good and not worth the trouble if it’s like that already so early on.
I would move an and take the month abroad to clear your mind and enjoy being away without having this hanging over you, worrying etc

[Asker]

It's not the beginning though... we were coworkers and had a thing going on last year... which resolved the same way. I don't know why he is like that