How soon is too soon to take a serious trip/vacation with someone you just started dating?

[Anonymous]

Like a week into dating them, if they asked you to fly to like Brazil with them for the week, or go on a mountain adventure in Montana, are you going? Would it factor in if they offered to pay for the trip in you saying yes/no, or not?

[Rei13]

How well do you know them? My boyfriend and I went on a trip the first month we were dating and then a ton more within the first six months. I don’t see why not if you trust them, you only live once and it’s an opportunity for new experiences

[Sameone]

How much do you know this person what do you know about him ( his job his house his family...)

Maybe he is going to kidnapped you or he is going to rapes you?

Brazil is not safe country

For me it's really weird for man after week dating is going to pay everything for this trip?

Think aboutt is not about free trip

[coachTanthony]

Not a chance. I would stick to weekend getaways that are not too far from home. Don't get stuck thousands of miles away with someone you barely know.

[Pinay_ako]

I’m down to go travel. I like travelling. So if a man I’m dating wants to go places with me, why not? I’d pay for me tho. We can split or take turns in paying for food/drinks if he wants. But it’s nbd for me.

[AviatorTom]

Depends. How are your dates going? Are you comfortable together?

[A_Bell]

Not out of the country, that's for sure. "Hey honey, we're going to Somalia, please put these shackles on and let me brand you for the slave auction. "

Maybe a day trip to an overnight the first month, then maybe a weekend to long weekend. No big travels until you've met family, in my opinion.

[slatyb]

There's no "too soon". It could be great or terrible. You may want to ask them if sex is expected before you go.

[236color]

Honestly I'd say don't go if you aren't already sexually intimate.

[Valdemort]

Honestly... why not. If you trust then... You'll be able to test how much time the two of you can spend together before wanting to kill one another. 😅 Just be clear on certain boundaries and respect those.

[Simslover92]

A week is way too soon. Maybe after a few months of dating and you've gotten to know them better.

[dustybiker2]

I would go. Once you've felt secure with them. No better way to know if you click with someone than to do something adventurous. It pushes all the buttons early and much faster than regular dating. I applaud the idea.

[electromagnetic]

Depends on your comfort level. My partner and I always enjoyed travelling even before we started dating. We went on our first holiday 4 months into dating and have been going away together every couple of months for years after.

[Alwayreckles93]

Some people are so fake and preten to be someone they are not try to copy you just to date you. But once you give yhem your trust they show you your true colors. So no no.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I wouldn't let them pay for me, but a week into the relationship? Not a chance. WAY too soon for me. Maybe 6 months or so.

[sheikalana]

I'd say until 6 months of dating is still too soon for me.

[CallmeTheKnight]

If the both of you already have history together before you dated, then anytime is fine.
If not, give it about 6 months to a year. Don’t try that with someone you’re still getting to know

[ProbablyClueless]

If you know the person pretty well and the trust is there, why not?

[OtterMan68]

When you think you know each other enough that if you're stuck together miles from home, you'll be comfortable

[DreamLife7]

I can never understand why women can't think for themselves when it comes to simple matters.

[douride2]

A week is way to soon. For myself it would be 6-12 months down the road

[Berweic]

It's early because you don't know him yet. How do you know if you are a mafia, rapist or thief?

[Vick2828]

All it takes is three months to know if someone is a cool person. If they make you question the invite, then give it more time.

[Iron_Man]

One week I don’t think so. You don’t even know them

[DizzyDesii]

I think at least 3 months in is okay

[crazycatlady778]

Depends how long you’ve known them