Why would a guy frequently call u if he doenst love u?

[Anonymous]

I dont get it.. Sure we are friend, so whats the need of calling me for hours, min 2hours each call. Then just randomly talk about life, tease each other, relationship and etc🤷🏻‍♀️

[spacystacy]

That sounds to me like a friendship. I also have a guy best friend with whom I can talk for hours on the phone but there's no romantic vibe whatsoever. He seems to simply enjoy your company and talking to you. Guys - and it were guys who told me that - don't think as complex as we do. What they say, what they do is what they mean.

But a question: did you ever talk about dating? How do you know he doesn't love you, did he tell you?

[Asker]

Never ask about it. But just when we were talking about other people in relationship, he will be like “thats why i dont want relationship” or he would say “thats why i dont want to date someone from same workplace or uni” or he would sometimes say “if i confess first then if she reject, that would be a disaster” and many more. So i assume all of that is just to hint me he dont want anything more with me

[Explorer91]

Lonely. Wants emotional intimacy. Attention. For now..

[laly520]

some r chatty n he is behaving like a friend

[MrZameer]

It's seems like he is your best friend and he loves your company and really enjoy it