Why do girls only show interest when your already in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

This has happened twice already (but multiple time in my past two relationships) but when I'm single it's like women just want to be friends or just turn me down but when I do get into a relationship some of those same girls will come back out and start showing interest why do they do this it's kinda frustrating can anyone share they're opinion on this

[Anonymous]

When you are single, and they don't like you enough they try to keep distance a bit so to not complicate situation or to not fall into such situation closer to that but when you are no more single it feels a little bit safer to flirt or get more friendly as now their is no such chance to get into that situation.

Other reason can be that a guy who is taken becomes a little bit more attractive itself as we can see now clearly what anyone can get in relationship with you what you really offers to your partner how you act how you love and it's more attractive as now we can see now all in reality than just simply assuming.

[loveslongnails]

There are many theories on this phenomenon. One is that when you're single, you put out a vibe or energy that has the elements of neediness, loneliness, or in extreme cases, desperation. That energy repels interest in you. Once you're coupled up or in relationship, you subconsciously put out vibes that are stronger and more positive, and that attracts others.

Another theory is that girls want to see if they tempt you, so they play with you. It's an ego stroke. They don't really want you in particular, and since you're taken they don't worry about you pursuing them, but they want to wander.

Still another theory is that attached guys are perfect foils for being used to make another guy jealous that the woman has her sights on. She will flirt, be teasing and touchy with an attached guy in full view of someone else she really wants, hoping it will make the other guy want to fight for her attention.

[boggboss]

Because they feel like it is their last chance and had feelings before but didn't want to make a move

[Anonymous]

once we see you are good enough for another girl then we know you're good enough to consider and it's very sexy

[jahaims]

The people who wait til you are taken aren't mature enough to be in relationships