Why girls don't show interest in you, but as soon as other girl shows interest , suddenly they show interest in you?

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Username28 · Accepted Answer

If you were trying to pick up a girl and got rejected. For me, if you're rejecting other girls that show interest I'll become interested but if girls are interested in you and you respond I won't give a fuck... especially if you start bringing those girls around me. That's a childish method. If this is just an in an general question it has to do with curiosity or a girl is being petty.

Piscesgirl96 · Accepted Answer

Girls are very competitive they might have guys only because they like the attention or the thought of guys liking her it fills her ego but when they see that they start liking some other girl they try to seem interested in you so you won't stop liking her they think they're better than other girls but it's a trap.

zippididooda · Accepted Answer

It's like the experiment scientists conducted with fish. They discovered that if a male fish mated with a female other females would became interested and mate with him too. It's like he became known "good boyfriend material". Female humans do it too. Other women saw something in you, so you became more popular because of that.

WalterBlack · Accepted Answer

It is comparable to market value of commodities. The more people who are interested in a product, the higher its value goes. The man who is desired by multiple women has a higher dating market value than a man who is desired by only one woman. Women are instinctively drawn to men with a higher market value.

btbc92 · Answer

Some women are fickle. But please don't loop all of us with them. I cannot show interest in a person i don't personally know on a deep level such as friendship. I need to see compatibility first, such as are they are virgin, do they sleep around, watch porn, believe in God, abortion, etc. I cannot be with somebody who doesn't share my values, wants and desires for a relationship. Many girls who are fickle are those who goes by looks. The practice is not a female gender thing. It is a immature people thing. Men do the same thing. They get jealous when another guy shows interest and it makes him feel emasculated. Like it makes some women feel unworthy of his affections or attention. Most of them have self esteem issues.

Either way, you cannot base your interest on simple attraction, flirting and all of those games. You see how it is in that picture? It's games. That's why I don't participate in dating. A serious person sticks to their commitments and don't play those hard to get games. They're honest, even if their uncertain. At least they have honesty.

Anonymous · Answer

I've done this. In my case it was because I've liked the guy from the start since I felt we really clicked and he was easy to understand. A lot in my life I feel is getting in the way of being able to tell him and try to see if it goes anywhere, I also feel I don't have enough information to proceed. I feel he deserves better than me sometimes. I hadn't realised I hadn't been showing much interest until the other girl came. I have tried to get rid of the feelings and weird thoughts but it didn't work so I tried to ignore it sometimes instead.

I think the fact that I really like him and the weird way it's affected me was triggering weird actions like trying to interact with him more and stuff. When he was was interested in the other girl it hurt a lot but at the same time due to a lot of different things I may be overthinking I really wanted it to work out or for him and her, and for him to be happy since he confessed his love multiple times to her. I don't know why I was showing more interest after she came into the picture, everything feels very conflicting. I've never felt like this before and I'm not very good at dealing with emotions. I know I'm not that girl, but I'm sorry if that interest was a problem for you. All the best in life and with who ever.

alfiegoodtimes · Answer

It's social psychology. Woman run from what chases them. there's no fught, you've seen it. Good guy, madly in love with her. She makes sure to remind him of his status.. hello friend, or the "your like a brother to me" fck that. I told one girl who fz me. I love you like a sister. But not my sister bc I wanna do some weird and freaky sht to you! . I needed that friend zone to end and I had to get to the point. For my own sanity I severed all ties. It sucked but I had to move on to greener pastures

Andrejoao · Answer

I think major cause is jealousy but you can also refer this to female nature. At first place there is no value of you in her eyes. But suddenly when you are near achieve someone or when they saw potential in you, they become interested in you.
Have you ever noticed that women always wants to know about your relationship and dating life to make conclusion.

Anyway girl suddenly show interest in you, because she wants to divide you attention and attraction to make you nervous.

nerms123 · Answer

This has happened to me before then I realize I don’t actually want the guy lol. He just seemed temporarily appealing because another girl approved of him.

LanceLa · Answer

Going on another take, compared to other people on here. Which is that maybe the girl is to shy to get with the guy or flirt but then when someone else comes along it is a do or die type of moment. It is that or like everyone else has been saying.

BattleKitten77 · Answer

Because women are cunts. I call this the pllayground mentality. One kid sees another enjoying a toy then they snatch it away

MIMIKENT1325 · Answer

Its a girl thing, competitive, territorial thing. We want to see ourself if we can win him over the next girl, then let her know"Okay, you can have him now, but if i wanted him you would not have stood a chance! "

Anonymous · Answer

(1) girls are more concerned with what other girls are doing-if someone else likes you what are they overlooking? (2) they are playing the "hard-to-get-chase-me" game and realize that someone else is about to "snatch" their prize away. (get it?)

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I'm not like that - unless I really really want to be with the guy or believe I'm better than my rival - I will run if there is competition for him

janna_jcb · Answer

This does happen sometimes. I’ve experienced it myself. I never try to steal a guy or anything but sometimes a guy becomes more attractive once he has a girlfriend. I can’t explain why, I guess it’s some sort of natural process

producer · Answer

It's because its not cuz of jealousy at all. Sometimes it is sometimes not, but the thing with girls is that they are attracted to people other girls want. No girl wants someone that no one else wants

buttcrackjoe · Answer

People who are suddenly desired become inductively desired by others because their DNA is seen as more likely to spread

dbr1987 · Answer

Look up sexual market value on YouTube. Your value goes up when others like you

Daniel3035 · Answer

Because they're lying shallow bitches who don't care about a thing until it matters.

Stan_Control_ · Answer

Yeah, they realize they made bad life choices that moment.

Browser101 · Answer

Sounds like she was playing hard to get and saw that she might have competition...

Paul5966 · Answer

They pretty much dont know what they want until they are verge of loosing it they magically decide and fight for it

Anonymous · Answer

Once I got married, I had more attention from women than ever before...

Anonymous · Answer

Female nature, girls never know what they want.

utterlyconfusedXD · Answer

because girls always want what they can't get

CausticHippy · Answer

When it rains it pours.

Pulimuli · Answer

They dont

PrinceOfAljazeera · Answer

thats women for you

Anonymous · Answer

Bullshit

lazares · Answer

Wooow

rehan2000 · Answer

Yes you are right

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