One of my friends is attempting to set me up with a girl he met while playing pool at a bar. Should I risk meeting her or immediately reject her?

[SolitarySolace]

One of my friends is attempting to set me up with a girl he met while playing pool at a bar. Apparently she sings at these bars he plays pool at. I am NOT the type of guy to go to a bar and I only ever drink on special occasions. Been single for 9 years and am completely content staying that way. I like living my life on my own terms.

Go 4 it

Reject her

[AviatorTom]

What's to lose by going out with her? You might like it.

This is what friends do...

[SolitarySolace]

I've been single for 9 years now and I can't see myself breaking that streak. Besides, do you really think a misogynist and a bar singer would last? 😂

[AviatorTom]

Who says it has to last? Just have one date... you may have fun!

[SolitarySolace]

I don't date

[AviatorTom]

Your loss. A date doesn't have to be about sex, or long-term relationships, or even friendship. Sometimes it's just a way of having some fun.

[SolitarySolace]

I don't do fun with women

[AngryCarl]

My friends have tried to set me up with women in the past and it has never worked out. That said, I've never lost out because of the experience. Then again I don't hate women.

[IslaTheWitch]

if you already consider her a risk, do her a favor and reject her immediately.

[SolitarySolace]

After my 4th ex cheated on me every woman who's come to me with interest I've rejected. That would be so far a total of 5 or 6

[IslaTheWitch]

I wonder... If all women you are with do the same... it means something is wrong with you... in this whole situation, you are the common denominator

[SolitarySolace]

Yup, that's what everyone tells me. 😁 Always the man's fault.

[RebelinSteel]

No dont, she likely has a decent life, you are best single.

[SolitarySolace]

My thoughts exactly

[exitseven]

it does not sound like tyou have much in common. I would take a pass.

[JacobJordan]

I would advise meeting her at a restaurant and order no alcohol. Maybe she is a super sweet woman.

[SolitarySolace]

She may come across as sweet at first but their true nature is never sweet

[JacobJordan]

Not always true mate. My wife is amazing and she presents the same as she is. I would set aside the assumption for horribleness and be open to the chance she might be alright. She is coming from a friend after all. Statistically the most common sources for marriage partners are through friends and family, through work and through hobbies. Most girls aren't bad it is just a really loud really shitty minority

[SolitarySolace]

One of of my other friends a while back attempted to set me up with a women before. She was too outspoken and constantly made me uncomfortable. So I do not believe your statistics. Most girls I connect with all turn out to be bad. Very bad. You have no fucking idea.

Also, your wife making you pay her child support? If yes what kind of a woman would force someone they supposedly love to do that

[JacobJordan]

My wife and I have 3 kids together and I pay for everything. I am the protector and the provider and she is the nurturing mother figure the children need to develop into healthy adults. Not sure how I would pay child support to someone I am married too I admit. I will say my wife does earn money as well via her artwork but all our money goes into our account and then we each have a personal account so we can get surprises for each other that won't show up on the shared account. We are both around the same age and she is eastern European so that likely has made a difference.

[SolitarySolace]

She doesn't seem to bring much to the table to balance out everything you seem to be doing

[JacobJordan]

She brings exactly what she is supposed to. She takes care of the kids takes care of her man always has hot food and cold drink ready after a long day. She is supportive and encouraging honest, kind, loving caring respectful. Someday I am too burnt out to do a lot and she massages me. I could go on for hours admittedly but suffice it to say I am a very happy man

[SolitarySolace]

Good for you hope that actually lasts as long as you seem to think it will

[JacobJordan]

Coming up on 20 years

[NathanDavis]

please don't

spare her...

[SolitarySolace]

I'm sure some other poor unfortunate soul will get with her eventually

[NathanDavis]

and they will be able to deal with it... you won't

save yourself as well... and keep working on that therapy instead

[SolitarySolace]

Oh I am working on therapy. I think my plans to get my therapist to divorce his wife is working

[NathanDavis]

just don't snap... if she gets half the stuff

[SolitarySolace]

Oh I know she will and when she does my therapist will finally understand where I'm coming from

[SotiCoto]

You're just making these stories up for attention, aren't you?

[SolitarySolace]

Why would I do that?

[Dongie]

Go 4,5 and sex for it.

[msc545]

Might as well meet her.

[SolitarySolace]

Why?