What do you consider a red flag in a woman/man in dating?

[CoolCatMar1]

When he is secretive or when he talks too loud

[DizzyDesii]

When they dont stand up for themselves or others

[sheikalana]

Too invested on social media.

[jennifer_bloom]

When he judges me by a standard he is not willing to meet himself. Or when he judges me by an unfair standard.

[Awesomesauce2005]

Agreed

[Awesomesauce2005]

In my defence when i get caught up in a conversation, my volume escalates without me realising it so it probably isn't his fault he is loud if that's the issue... Red flags i have observed in women is any kind of substance abuse (including food 😂) swearing is fine and drinking on the holidays is fine. Breaching my personal space is a red flag, lying and keeping secrets is a red flag, coming onto my friends male and female is a red flag, not responding to my messages for a week is a red flag, and being a woman is a red flag. Lmfao just kidding on the last one.😂

[JacobJordan]

Fat, make up, drinks regularly, smokes, does drugs, has a body count beyond 3, had kids and single, swears a lot, dresses in revealing clothes. Might be a couple others but those are the ones I remember

[RebelinSteel]

When I get a gut feeling something is off, yes overly secretive, was open, then stops being open, obviously lying, being racist, homophobic, an out right full on crazy person.

[AaronKrieger]

They consistently vent or talk negatively about their exes.

[David94358]

If someone is too controlling or too demanding, someone that might have some toxic aspect of their personality that you see right away.

[Sevenpointfive]

i just want a woman to lie on a red cloud with me

[DJB72]

The use of the phrase "body count" unless they're professional contract killers

[Awesomesauce2005]

If you want me to use that context i have a body count in the millions lol

[Jennz6]

Cheating, telling lies, drinking alcohol 🍺 too much and the list goes on

[Jennz6]

@coolcatmar1 thanks for the like xx

[KittygosMeoWW]

Someone who doesn’t have good friends or just casual friends no real friends

[strateguy632]

when she pressures me to tell my secrets red flag

[Jerre]

When they talk about bad things from past friends

[Jerre]

@coolcatmar1 Thank you for the Like

[OtterMan68]

jealousy. Get angry easily. Talks down to people. Constantly looking in a mirror

[Nice222]

People that have poor or toxic relationships with their family.

[Lara_Croft]

Not Godly, doesn't know Jesus.

[patrick994]

when she claims to be spoiled;

[laly520]

being liar/have past of cheating

[swettannie]

when he's too weak minded

[LavLavLuv]

Aggressive and disrespectful for no reason

[msc545]

ANy dislike of animals.

[NathanDavis]

racism

[slatyb]

Mistreating others.