If at any point a girl asks/Do the following.
How much I make
How Tall I am
How Big I am
If I own anything (House, car, name brand stuff)
If she asks if I am okay with her going out with her friends for a couple days. <-- feels like a sign of guilt.
If she is close to her Ex/Exes and talks to them and hangs out regularly.
If she is heavily political
if she spends daily on expensive or excessive things like buying expensive coffee every day if she can't really afford it.
If she has no understanding of any of my interests.
Now to the more specifics
If she insults me
If she ever lays her hand on me
If she takes food from my plate and doesn't let me do the same to her.
If she asks to see my phone but won't let me see hers.
If she asks to see my phone period
If she refuses to attempt to try my hobbies/interests
If she asks me for money for anything that isn't an emergency
If she expects me to pay 100% of the bill
IF SHE EVER ASKS ME OUT ON A DATE AND MAKES ME PAY THE BILL
If she insists on meeting my friends and hanging out with them.
Its okay for your partner to like your friends but its different if they are hanging out on their own with them. That's a heavy redflag.
If she doesn't want me around when her friends or family come over.
If she brings up mistakes i made in the past or stuff i said in confidence to her.
I will end here I am getting bored of listing but thats about 20% of the red flags in my book Enjoy.
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Liars. Shit testers. Thinking guys want sluts by conflating libido with promiscuity. Girls who have nasty attitudes. Girls who don’t stand up for themselves, which ties into being overly reliant on their friends for support leaving them susceptible to peer pressure. Girls who are unhealthy due to lack of self discipline, that is overweight. Girls who have a problem with guys being breadwinners whether they themselves are one or not. Girls who compete by tearing others down, rather than pushing to raise themselves up.
To name a few.
I guess if she showed up to the date wearing a t-shirt with the Chinese flag on it, that would be a literal Red Flag!
Attitude, asks for nudes, is dishonest or doesn’t care about how you feel or what you think.
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Typically, girls who are loud in normal conversation have other character flaws that are enough to keep me away.
Women who expect men to pay for their dates at all times. I'm not bothering with escorts with poor job performance. They can go find another man to simp. I'd be better off with a literal escort than these entitled hoes nowadays.
If I were to name a second one, it'd be any woman who described herself as (very) liberal. Either "liberal" or "very liberal." Used to just be the latter, but liberals are awful nowadays, and I used to be one (back before they became woke fascists).
And recently, I had two unusual red flags with a girl I was hanging out with as a friend. One, she said she was studying journalism. As in, recently studying journalism. Journalists are complete scumbags nowadays. Second thing she said was how she was "#teamheard" in a text message. I don't ghost people, but I never responded back to her after that and that was like six weeks ago now.I have had this red flag for a while. OK I take you to a cafe and as the gentleman I am I pull out the chair for you. And you go to a different chair and sat yourself.
Major RED+.
You do take the seat I have pulled out for you but plump right down on it instead of letting me push it back in for me.
Major RED-.If she falters in her submissiveness.
A woman should defer to her man, if she picked a good one he'll know better than her and have a stronger head on his shoulders. The man is the pilot and she's the sexy stewardess, she's NOT the copilot. Second guessing him and being argumentative or opinionated shows she lacks confidence in her decision in that man.Heavy drinking. By heavy drinking I don't mean drinking a liter of vodka every day. I mean anyone who does not have their drinking completely under control and/or it affects them negatively in some way.
Entitled. Naggy. Not a Christian. There are more. Plays on her phone.
They vote blue instead of red. Complete deal breaker.
Using the phrase “It’s okay for a man” in any context. That’s pretty much an admission that she has the morals of an alley cat.
She thinks just because she exists whoever she ends up with owes her the world. Entitlement/ Pretty Princess syndrome “You’re supposed to give me these thing because it’s just right and convenient.” People that have to tell people those things don’t see the irony.
- when she asks you your occupation generally she trying to find out how much you make. Not what you do.
-if she starts of talking negatively about past relationships (big red flag)
-if she has had many relationships
-if she has kids from those relationships
-if she is showing an excessive amount of skin.If I sense at all that she is manipulative and controlling, it's a no from me.
Having a toxic personality.
The thing is the moment you spot a major red flag there is no more dating, it just ends there and then.- Feminist
- Dresses like a whore
- Smokes or does drugs
- has tatts or weird piercings
- acts entitled (expects me to pay)
- is on her phone
- says “like” every second word
- has a slutty online presence
- is rude to peopleWhen men... that's it I hate when men., there's nothing else to it
Piercings in close to the mouth because I don´t think it looks good besides that doing drugs and smoking.
If, despite no longer being 12, she stil worships some famous dude (s), that's when I slowly back away.
Attitude, disinterest, disrespect, lack of gratitude.
MENTALLY UNSTABLE
Stupid even in general knowledge
Lazy and doesn’t know to do literally everything
Jobless and friendless
Stingy (one time an ex for a 1 dollar back from buying me a tea months ago)Victim mentality. If everything is someone else’s fault and they never take responsibility for their situation then there’s nothing I can do. Eventually I will be yet another person to blame
Mental illness above us else (there are others, but they usually stem from that)
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