How much I make How Tall I am How Big I am If I own anything (House, car, name brand stuff) If she asks if I am okay with her going out with her friends for a couple days. <-- feels like a sign of guilt. If she is close to her Ex/Exes and talks to them and hangs out regularly. If she is heavily political if she spends daily on expensive or excessive things like buying expensive coffee every day if she can't really afford it. If she has no understanding of any of my interests.
Now to the more specifics If she insults me If she ever lays her hand on me If she takes food from my plate and doesn't let me do the same to her. If she asks to see my phone but won't let me see hers. If she asks to see my phone period If she refuses to attempt to try my hobbies/interests If she asks me for money for anything that isn't an emergency If she expects me to pay 100% of the bill IF SHE EVER ASKS ME OUT ON A DATE AND MAKES ME PAY THE BILL If she insists on meeting my friends and hanging out with them.
Its okay for your partner to like your friends but its different if they are hanging out on their own with them. That's a heavy redflag.
If she doesn't want me around when her friends or family come over. If she brings up mistakes i made in the past or stuff i said in confidence to her.
I will end here I am getting bored of listing but thats about 20% of the red flags in my book Enjoy.
Liars. Shit testers. Thinking guys want sluts by conflating libido with promiscuity. Girls who have nasty attitudes. Girls who don’t stand up for themselves, which ties into being overly reliant on their friends for support leaving them susceptible to peer pressure. Girls who are unhealthy due to lack of self discipline, that is overweight. Girls who have a problem with guys being breadwinners whether they themselves are one or not. Girls who compete by tearing others down, rather than pushing to raise themselves up.
Well, other than it being disrespectful to wear a flag as clothing, Clearly, you have never seen the Chinese flag 🇨🇳! It’s literally a pure red flag w/ some small yellow stars! Given that YOU asked about One “major” Red Flag, I decided to make a humorous comment about her wearing a LITERAL RED FLAG!
Sweetie, absolutely nothing that I wrote to you is rude, or was intended to be rude. Usually if there is a misunderstanding like this, when I re-read it I can see why they may have thought that I was being rude, even though I was not, and I apologize for the misunderstanding. But even after re-reading my answer SEVERAL times, I cannot for the life of me understand what on earth you thought was rude about my answer. So I’m going to stand by my answer and assume that you simply read into my answer something that simply is not there.
Women who expect men to pay for their dates at all times. I'm not bothering with escorts with poor job performance. They can go find another man to simp. I'd be better off with a literal escort than these entitled hoes nowadays.
If I were to name a second one, it'd be any woman who described herself as (very) liberal. Either "liberal" or "very liberal." Used to just be the latter, but liberals are awful nowadays, and I used to be one (back before they became woke fascists).
And recently, I had two unusual red flags with a girl I was hanging out with as a friend. One, she said she was studying journalism. As in, recently studying journalism. Journalists are complete scumbags nowadays. Second thing she said was how she was "#teamheard" in a text message. I don't ghost people, but I never responded back to her after that and that was like six weeks ago now.
How much I make How Tall I am How Big I am If I own anything (House, car, name brand stuff) If she asks if I am okay with her going out with her friends for a couple days. <-- feels like a sign of guilt. If she is close to her Ex/Exes and talks to them and hangs out regularly. If she is heavily political if she spends daily on expensive or excessive things like buying expensive coffee every day if she can't really afford it. If she has no understanding of any of my interests.
Now to the more specifics If she insults me If she ever lays her hand on me If she takes food from my plate and doesn't let me do the same to her. If she asks to see my phone but won't let me see hers. If she asks to see my phone period If she refuses to attempt to try my hobbies/interests If she asks me for money for anything that isn't an emergency If she expects me to pay 100% of the bill IF SHE EVER ASKS ME OUT ON A DATE AND MAKES ME PAY THE BILL If she insists on meeting my friends and hanging out with them.
Its okay for your partner to like your friends but its different if they are hanging out on their own with them. That's a heavy redflag.
If she doesn't want me around when her friends or family come over. If she brings up mistakes i made in the past or stuff i said in confidence to her.
I will end here I am getting bored of listing but thats about 20% of the red flags in my book Enjoy.
I have had this red flag for a while. OK I take you to a cafe and as the gentleman I am I pull out the chair for you. And you go to a different chair and sat yourself.
Major RED+.
You do take the seat I have pulled out for you but plump right down on it instead of letting me push it back in for me.
Well they seem to be completely unused to any courtesy Woman_2004. I like courtesy between the sexes - they are small things admittedly and girls are able to open doors themselves to be sure. The reason why it is a red flag is that if a girl is unable to recognize a courtesy from me, then she is unlikely to give courtesy to me. Instead of 'Please could you pass me the salt' it will be 'Gimme the salt' and a whole lot of social lubricant just goes out the window.
I've noticed that couples who say please and thank you to each other seem to have the best relationships.
A woman should defer to her man, if she picked a good one he'll know better than her and have a stronger head on his shoulders. The man is the pilot and she's the sexy stewardess, she's NOT the copilot. Second guessing him and being argumentative or opinionated shows she lacks confidence in her decision in that man.
Heavy drinking. By heavy drinking I don't mean drinking a liter of vodka every day. I mean anyone who does not have their drinking completely under control and/or it affects them negatively in some way.
She thinks just because she exists whoever she ends up with owes her the world. Entitlement/ Pretty Princess syndrome “You’re supposed to give me these thing because it’s just right and convenient.” People that have to tell people those things don’t see the irony.
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- when she asks you your occupation generally she trying to find out how much you make. Not what you do. -if she starts of talking negatively about past relationships (big red flag) -if she has had many relationships -if she has kids from those relationships -if she is showing an excessive amount of skin.
the first one I am guilty of but it’s only cause it’s small take haha but that’s a pretty good list. What’s the worst out of them all?
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Hard to say. They all tell you a little about her character. If I had to pick one? Probably "if she starts talking negatively about past relationships". We've all had bad experiences. And there's nothing wrong with sharing them with a partner so they get a better understanding of you. But any woman that unloads all that really early on tells me those past experiences control her, she doesn't control them. Know what I mean?
Micro aggressions, they can escalate quickly and result in abuse and rape
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- Feminist - Dresses like a whore - Smokes or does drugs - has tatts or weird piercings - acts entitled (expects me to pay) - is on her phone - says “like” every second word - has a slutty online presence - is rude to people
Victim mentality. If everything is someone else’s fault and they never take responsibility for their situation then there’s nothing I can do. Eventually I will be yet another person to blame
Attitude, disinterest, disrespect, lack of gratitude.
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MENTALLY UNSTABLE Stupid even in general knowledge Lazy and doesn’t know to do literally everything Jobless and friendless Stingy (one time an ex for a 1 dollar back from buying me a tea months ago)
If I sense a hatred for men as a whole, I'm out of there. Who am I to think I'm exempt from her anger? If she demands worship, I'm out. If she can't be told no, I'm out.
a lot of things but a big Red flag is her wanting to get into. My phone knowing that I have classified information in my phone regarding military contacts and contracts
I mean if i date for something serious im judging her on her mom qualities. Meaning im assumed she will not work or minimally work. An ideal mom doesn't put the kids in daycare and is more versed in cooking and how to care for children than a job.
For casual fun relationship its not important or a benefit because if we break up she can move out easily with her own income.
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