Men what do you think a woman means when she says she enjoys a challenge in her man?

[Anonymous]

Say you’re not together but you have a crush on her…what sort of behaviours would you think she’d find attractive that would make her want to date you?

[TommyMountainFigure]

Oh that's easy to answer.

It's the same for a guy who doesn't want a girl to agree with everything he says and does. That is how things get stale and boring.

[Asker]

100%

[MrDaveAPSI]

Women are easy to get, so, if she's saying she wants a challenge in her man, she's saying she wants to chase him

It's all fun and games to this woman, and isn't serious about it. MOVE ON

[DreamLife7]

Sounds like she's emotionally damaged, daddy issues and dysfunctional. A healthy woman would want an available man not an obstacle. Get therapist

[Asker]

I don’t interpret someone who challenges you as dysfunctional. Someone who is unavailable is dysfunctional. Someone who challenges us pushes us to be and do better.

[DreamLife7]

Hun , seek a therapist

[JayBones]

I think it means she is a problem and not worth the trouble.

[Asker]

Why…

[Anonymous]

I just pretend like she doesn't exist. Seems to do the trick.

[Asker]

That wouldn’t work on people with heathy self esteem

[Opinion Owner]

Bullshit. If anything she is relieved that I'm not yet another creep harassing her.

I let them come to me. So now you have implied that the only reason a woman would ever approach me is because she has mental health issues.

[Nikki1989]

She is a glutton for punishment.

[Asker]

I’m not sure I agree with that. We should all be challenged a little I believe.

[laly520]

ig she is after some drama

[Anonymous]

She likes to argue.

[Asker]

Really? Wow. I disagree, I think it means she has drive and enjoys challenges and wnats someone who understands this enough to support her and be on the same page. Help each other be and do better.

[Opinion Owner]

OK, but do you realize that's both of yours page?
Most guys do not want a challenge from the woman thier with. They want a well of support. A guy with character will challenge himself without any help from you.

[BarryLiverstone]

None

[handsomelad70]

Brains, boyish good looks and personality, all of which I possess.

[Asker]

@handsomelad70 I’d agree with those characteristics. I’d include ambition too.

[handsomelad70]

Right, and women even today like and admire acquisitive men.