Do men like playful women?

[Anonymous]

I am a shy and serious person, deep down I am crazy and eccentric, love playing too, just dont know how to express it sometimes.

Today, hanged out with my friends and their friends. My body language and all emphasized my shyness. However after a while I approached the stranger guy and flirted with him so that he asked me out.

Friend of my friend, the one who is very experienced and open minded, seemed surprised saying “ I could never think you were that playful. Whoa! What a naughty girl!”

I don’t know why he enjoyed me flirting with another guy but he obviously did.

So... My question is do men like playful women? If so, how do I stay playful when I am serious and shy + socially awkward?

[Anonymous]

Of course we do, don't want someone who's a stick in the mud. To be playful it's kind of like teasing but not insulting.

[Asker]

Any advice on how do I am more playful and why did that friend of mine enjoy me flirting with another man?

[Opinion Owner]

little things can set him off, like sitting a little closer than normal, saying you like his shirt complementing something he's done. Just done make it too obvious, has to be subtle.

It probably surprised him that you acted differently. We like outgoing girls and showing a more dominant action is an attractive trait.

[Anonymous]

I would love a girl like you a lot that looks shy but inside is naughty , that type is sexy to me

[Asker]

Thanks :) some days I still get shy. Like I can’t stay playful all the time, I wish I could though...

Anyways, how do you think why was he that surprised and why did he like it? Because it wasn’t him I flirted with but another guy.

[Opinion Owner]

Cuz he already knew you as a shy girl , so you made something that's really different from the way he knew you , may be he liked the way you approached that guy

[Jonny705]

First most of us do like playful women. Second the more you do it the easier it will come.

[Oasha]

Yes they do