Do men like provocative women, really?

[Popo21]

I was shopping the other day
and I saw this girl with a tube top (almost looks like a corset)
with tight tight leggings, they were literally transparent.. they looked like stockings
you could SEE the flesh on her ass literally
is that attractive? It looked so trashy and too try hard to me

[MrOracle]

Women always ask questions like this... as if men only "like" women for one thing (which when women are asking almost always means "for a relationship"). But you don't seem to realize that men want women for TWO things:

- For relationships (only a very small percentage of women fit in this category - and it's different women for different guys)
- For JUST SEX (and this category contains virtually EVERY woman we find physically attractive)

Most guys don't want the girl they're in a relationship with to dress that way, but if it's a girl we just want to bang, then most of us not only don't mind, but it tells us "she's likely to be good to go - ENGAGE!" And chances are, she probably IS good to go. Not every woman wants a relationship, and those that don't often still want sex, and so they "advertise" that fact this way.

Until you realize that men can separate sex from relationships - and that they want sex (and ONLY sex) from a HUGE number of women, despite having no special feelings for them - then things like this will never make sense to you.

[Popo21]

I know that,
But a lot of men that I've spoken to has told me that women like that are a huge turn off because she looks to desperate and is trying to hard
Also, they look to skanky

[MrOracle]

It's true that you can go too far - and that the line is in a different place for different people - but in general, men are FAR more accepting of this than other women are - because women's bodies turn us on. That's simple biology at work, and we're VERY visual.

[Popo21]

Yes, but I'm sure that you would think she has no self respect? Or that she just wants that attention from random men?
Women know how men are and when they say that they dress like that "for themselves" is total bs
They do it for attention and usually the attention is purely sexual
I'm sure many men wouldn't want to get to know her on a deeper lever

[Popo21]

Level

[MrOracle]

Women don't dress like that when they want men to get to know them on a deeper level - and men don't want to get to know most women on a deeper level anyway. Some people just want to get laid, that THAT'S OKAY.

You do you, and let other people do what they like. She wasn't hurting anyone. Clearly she got attention, which was her goal. Why does it need to be any more complicated than that?

[Popo21]

I was just wondering how men thought of women who dressed like that because to me, it was a shock.

[UnknownReflection]

No. That is unattractive to me. It's disturbing and inappropriate. Among both men and women, behaving slutty seem to be the new definition of class. The more sluttier you be. The more comfortable and open minded or modernized you are.

But i suggest you stop it now. We're both gonna be attacked and get names such as "Prude".

Because speaking my encounters and experiences many people during this generation consider such examples very acceptable. It's somehow a social norm today.

Our disagreements also would represent us as prudes or selfish individuals who trying to interrupt women's choices and forcing people how to wear and decide their clothing.

Thankfully there are still numerous women who have some class-genome in their body who gives them this instinct to wear and appear as a respectful class lady. However still i better get back to my cave in the 70's where people knew how to dress nicely. . .

[Popo21]

Haha right!
I wish I lived in the 70s

[UnknownReflection]

Glad to see i'm not alone! i'll call you as soon as i find the time-traveler ship. So we could get rid of attention seekers and all the slutty behaviors!!

Encountering people like you gives me hope sincerely. Many values found during this generation doesn't fit me. This being one of them.

[Popo21]

I'm the same :) I don't understand why people support promiscuity. It's disgusting. People are turning into animals, 80% of Americans have an STD, etc etc
And it's still "okay"

[UnknownReflection]

Where you came from? which planet? !! lol!
The moment of joy that you realize someone understands you!
I don't know you! but still wanna appreciate for who you are as a person :)

Promiscuity is disgusting indeed! it's so terrifying to know many people quality their relationships by sex and sex alone. Let's get into bed to find out if we are "Compatible" !!
Partner 101 . . 102 . . (No Compatible found) . .
Marriage doesn't carry the same value instead one night stands and friends with benefits or the same Compatible chit-chat. And you already know about dressing and behaviors!!

[Popo21]

Yep, I'm pro-abstinence
I don't believe in sex before marriage
If two people really love each other, they will be "compatible"

[UnknownReflection]

Exactly!!
We need to respect the concept and meaning of Love.
Some people seem to not have a clue what love really means.
If the love is really true, the parties will be compatible automatically. They will build each other and become even better together and any sexual relation in between going to be enjoyable. Because it's love not an empty lust.
Instead people seem to not care about love anyway! they rather treat each other like sex toys!!

[Popo21]

I agree :)

[UnknownReflection]

You're awesome :)

[Anonymous]

Maybe she loves her body and is confident and happy? Honestly it's just a body we all have one I don't know why people get so mad and act like it's taboo but whatever

To answer ur question yes many straight men like to look at women who dress revealing because they are straight and so they are attracted to the female body.

Some men in relationships don't want thier girlfriend to dress revealing because they don't want other men to look at her - which I think is wrong because he does not OWN her it's not up to him what she wears just to help his insecurity issues but that's another story for another day.

[Popo21]

lol I think they think with their penis with women like that

Sure, it's just a body, but you can be classy and show skin.

[Opinion Owner]

I think with my pussy when I see a hot guy in a tight shirt showing muscles but I don't think he isn't "classy" I just think hey he worked out to earn that body so he wants to show people it.

I swear girl think about it that girl 100% doesn't give a shit about what anyone has to say she was prob feeling fine af and most guys will stare at her just like u must have been staring too

[Popo21]

I wasn't staring
I was shocked that someone would have such a low amount of self respect for their bodies
She was literally an object

[Opinion Owner]

YOU are the one who has no respect if your calling her an object

We obviously have different opinions and that's okay but like having a body and wanting to show it off doesn't make u some crazy sex addict transmitting chlamydia beams from her eye balls like girl it's just a booty and some boobs

[Popo21]

Haha okay, you're under 18, go finish your homework.

Many men are perverts, sorry, but that's how the world works whether you like it or not.
I'm sure she gets cat called at, groped, and disrespectful comments thrown at her because of the way she dresses

But she likes it because she specifically dresses like that for the male attention

No self respect.

[Opinion Owner]

Ah, lovely, here we go.

1. I'm 17, I have 2 jobs, I'm in college

2. Molesters and rapists don't care what your wearing, if they want to rape you they will

3. I have been cat called wearing clothes that fully cover me infact I've been cat called as a 13 year old which shows that pervs really have no limits whether ur naked or dressed like a nun - creeps will be creeps

4. Perhaps she does like male attention. So what? If she's a straight female then yes she will enjoy positive and consensual male attention. Humans are animals and we have primal instincts. Animals often give off mating calls or fluff thier feathers to show they want a mate so often humans will dress revealing to show they want some attention from a guy/girl

5. I have no idea why you care so much about a person u don't even know. She's happy she's living her life unnaffected by your post on an online thread

6. Pipe down

[Popo21]

Again, thanks for your comment
You can exit now.

[Opinion Owner]

Lmao I won, have a good life x

[Popo21]

Not really
I don't have time for little girls
Also, it saddens me that this generation supports promiscuity
Maybe that's why 80% of Americans have STDs
Smh
Females just use their bodies when they have nothing else going for them

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not American so that's not my issue

[soe11]

Anonymous
I do agree with you totally and completely.
I give my girlfriend total freedom wear in public, she love wearing revealing outfits like her mom, I boost her confidence as well I personally like her being sexy in public.

[blunttalker]

well im not surprised , we see all the time female celebrities dressing like that , getting naked for the cover magazine and they make it look as if it was empowering and many girls buy that when it's really not empowering at all. sure , show us you love your body , but is it that necessary to show us your body , why is there the need to prove us that you love your body , or why is there the need to get social approval and reassurance thag theyre hot?

[NyomiMcClinton]

Yeah that outfit sounds a bit over the top. Men will look at her and may think sexual thoughts. And then you have a lot of disrespectful men out there. Its just not worth the headache for me. I naturally get attention from men, so I dont really need to try hard to get men to notice men. Some females are just to over the top for me, and then they wonder why guys are rude and catcalling.

[Popo21]

Exactly?
Like that's unnecessary in my opinion
Everyone was literally looking at her like wth

[sexcrazy12]

I would not object and would enjoy the view. as for whether it is a little 'trashy', well, yes it does seem that way. but what the hell, if she wants to show ass, boobs and pussy then I am going to look lol

[Popo21]

Ofc you're going to look, but wouldn't it tell you a little bit about her character

[sexcrazy12]

as said, it will seem a little trashy yes. and for that matter easy. but I will enjoy nevertheless

[AleDeEurope]

It's trashy, but not gonna lie, if she's hot, it's gonna make us look. We wouldn't take her seriously, but still, a hot girl is gonna make us look.

[RizzleFoShizzle]

This is sad but it's mostly true and I admire the honesty

[AleDeEurope]

@RizzleFoShizzle Why is it sad? It's just looking. It's like if you see a hot dude without a shirt walking down the street, you would look at him xD

[Popo21]

I wouldn't hahs

[Popo21]

haha

[RizzleFoShizzle]

No no I mean it's sad that they won't take her seriously cause of her outfit

[Popo21]

@RizzleFoShizzle she should know that though

[RizzleFoShizzle]

Sorry who are u

[AleDeEurope]

@RizzleFoShizzle Well, the way you dress says a lot about your persona. A person that dresses trashy is a trashy person.

[RizzleFoShizzle]

Not true in the slightest and it's scary that there's people who think with that mentality but I'm done with this discussion so don't @ me

[AleDeEurope]

Lol @asker, I think this girl got pissed off because she's trashy too XD

[RizzleFoShizzle]

I wish we could send gifs on here

[AleDeEurope]

Lol this chick says don't @ me but keeps replying hahaha and she doesn't even know we can send gifs on here lol yeah we do, sweetie xD

[RizzleFoShizzle]

Lol this chick bla bla okay amazing ur patter is top notch.

I've never seen a gif here so I wouldn't know

[AleDeEurope]

https://www.drodd.com/images13/laughing-gif10.gif

[Popo21]

Lmao exactly
The way you dress says volumes about who you are as a person
Trust me.

[RizzleFoShizzle]

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[RizzleFoShizzle]

It's funny cause u don't know me as a person and my full contribution to this thread has been about body positivity and not shaming someone for being happy with thier body so that would give the impression I'm an open minded person but never mind

[Popo21]

@RizzleFoShizzle lol you people nowadays are taking "open mindedness" to another level

[RizzleFoShizzle]

"You people" is it cause I'm black?

[AleDeEurope]

@asker lol right. What's next? "Oh, he's masturbating in public... that's ok, he's just expressing his sexuality... I'm open minded like that :) "
Lmao

[Popo21]

@RizzleFoShizzle whatever you are. I'm not referring to race.

[AleDeEurope]

@RizzleFoShizzle How are we supposed to know you're black when you have no picture up? XD Geez throwing the racist card way too early, waaaaay too early XD

[RizzleFoShizzle]

I had the race card sitting there right at the top of the pile I was like I can't waste this golden opportunity to use this card

[Popo21]

Seriously, open minded nowadays just comes off as mindless to me. There should always be a limit to everything.

[RizzleFoShizzle]

It's cool we all have different opinions. There's like 7 billion people on earth of course we won't all agree.

[Popo21]

@RizzleFoShizzle yess, I just feel like it's the new thing to try and be "open minded”

[RizzleFoShizzle]

I'm not trying to be open minded, it's just me girl. Always been that way and always will :) peace

[Popo21]

@RizzleFoShizzle that's great

[RobertM92]

it's definitely a sight for sore eyes, yes. but all that does is make you look like a target if you will... someone to conquer.
not an asset to enrich my life

[ALPHALONEWOLF]

of course men will look at her. but nobody like it. ( at least most of the men )

[Nadzzz]

they don't seriously like them
just to pleasure the eyes maybe

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Not really, i like women who dresses sexy but not trashy. (No Offense)

[soe11]

To be honest we shouldn't be judged anyone, we don't know reason, it's her personal choice and right to wear, as long as she not braking the rules of society.
We should respect each other and accommodate every individual.
Keep earth peaceful.

[Iraqveteran666]

To be used for casual sex yes but not for a long term relationship

[RasmusAiken]

I'd call this trashy not provocative. I'd kick her to the curb.

[Anonymous]

It is fine if not transparent.. It should be totally opaque if ass is visible.

[Yusef]

i do not like it , and the most dosent.

[Maxemeister]

Not the type of women I usually go for, no

[xCutesyLolitax]

That's so ratchet :/

[Tylerw]

Trashy AF

[Anonymous]

No they don't

[Anonymous]

for hook up yes