So this whole thing is kinda silly, it feels like a cycle of irony but to start I’m not a sex worker atm but I do post some revealing stuff on my Instagram. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and I’ve been posting revealing stuff since before we’ve been dating. He was aware of that beforehand and I said a couple years ago that I’ve been considering doing onlyfans and that’s something I want to know if he’d be okay with and he was fine with it then. I never really got to doing it and his stance ended up changing on it which I respected, but I still set the boundary that i would be posting what I want to post. We’ve been on and off a few times within the relationship so he’s had multiple times to actually drop me if this is something that really bothered him. But he recently made a threat that he would break up with me if I posted anything with my butt or boobs out. My problem isn’t him expressing these feelings, but that he follows and looks at posts of other women that post the same exact (if not more provocative since they’re sex workers) stuff that I post. I had made a deal with him a while ago that I would stop posting a provocative pictures if he stopped saving videos of women shaking ass on to his camera roll. I find it kind of ironic and In general I would not have a problem with this but it feels like a double standard especially since he had me block all of his friends that follow me (as if it was my problem, bc that’s a conversation to have with his friends) because in his words “it’s only fair to not want my friends to see my girl like that.” But it feels like a double standard that it’s only “fair” that since I “belong” to him then other men shouldn’t be able to see me in that way while in his eyes it’s fair for him to save and like every single post on multiple sw pages. Especially since this is nothing new, he was into me for the stuff I posted and how I looked and now he feels entitled to me without meeting my boundaries either.
Is this a double standard?
