Is this a double standard?

[Funshr00ms]

So this whole thing is kinda silly, it feels like a cycle of irony but to start I’m not a sex worker atm but I do post some revealing stuff on my Instagram. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and I’ve been posting revealing stuff since before we’ve been dating. He was aware of that beforehand and I said a couple years ago that I’ve been considering doing onlyfans and that’s something I want to know if he’d be okay with and he was fine with it then. I never really got to doing it and his stance ended up changing on it which I respected, but I still set the boundary that i would be posting what I want to post. We’ve been on and off a few times within the relationship so he’s had multiple times to actually drop me if this is something that really bothered him. But he recently made a threat that he would break up with me if I posted anything with my butt or boobs out. My problem isn’t him expressing these feelings, but that he follows and looks at posts of other women that post the same exact (if not more provocative since they’re sex workers) stuff that I post. I had made a deal with him a while ago that I would stop posting a provocative pictures if he stopped saving videos of women shaking ass on to his camera roll. I find it kind of ironic and In general I would not have a problem with this but it feels like a double standard especially since he had me block all of his friends that follow me (as if it was my problem, bc that’s a conversation to have with his friends) because in his words “it’s only fair to not want my friends to see my girl like that.” But it feels like a double standard that it’s only “fair” that since I “belong” to him then other men shouldn’t be able to see me in that way while in his eyes it’s fair for him to save and like every single post on multiple sw pages. Especially since this is nothing new, he was into me for the stuff I posted and how I looked and now he feels entitled to me without meeting my boundaries either.

[Tim2nice]

He’s never been happy with you doing your stuff but he’s gone along with it not to risk losing you. You have to make it clear to him that you’re not his property and that you will do whatever you want and he must accept your lifestyle choices or move on. He’s immature and insecure and needs to grow up. I’m married and I’m totally at ease with anything my wife wants to do with her life as long as she loves me and accommodates my needs and desires within reason.

[Anonymous]

Not really, no. It would be a double standard if he told you not to post nudes of yourself and he POSTED nudes of himself. It would also be a double standard if he asked you not to look at pics of dudes while he's looking at pics of chicks. But him looking at pics of chicks is VERY different from you posting.

[QuietRunner]

He doesn't want anyone else to see what he is seeing. He wants to keep you exclusive as much as possible

It may be a double standard that he is look at others, but feels that you are special to him now

[Anonymous]

It's a respect thing. You wouldn't post revealing photos of yourself to get attention from strange men on the internet if you respected your boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

Wow, what a pair you two are. SMH

[Funshr00ms]

Like I said, it’s a cycle of irony. I can see how I’m in the wrong but he’s had years to drop me if this seriously bother him. Men love half naked chicks on social media until it’s their girl. That’s the double standard I see behind it

[Opinion Owner]

Men love to look at and fuck women like that, but they don't take them seriously as a partner or wife. You advertise yourself as a prostitute, not a serious woman.

Sure, I guess you can say it's a "double standard", but women are no different. Younger women love to look at and fuck around with bad boys, but when it comes time to find a serious partner, bad boys drop off the list.