basic needed disclimer
Woman are not a hive mind, each got her own personality and wants to needs
Dating a bum, why will you settle? and how is it are dubble standard? you got indipandince? you got a brain? you pick what you do not us, if you decide to take a bad choise and I dont is it my fault? 🤔
I split on first dates on what each taken, and if I wanted to go to one of my places that cost more il abslotley pay the full sum, will say some man where hurt in the proccess on there pride in the proccess
The highet is a prefrence, same like man have a prefrence its not a one side thing
I dont care hoe much the man makes, as long as he takes his share, as I take my share of the over all care (house, life and so on)
"You call man ugly" I dont, excpet if you know they do something ugly like spit around or clean there backside with there hand, that stuff is nusty
And hey.. listen, you can put makeup to
regardless I take care of my skin, do you take care of your look? do you invest the time to look better?
Will say I put very little makeup when I do, I prefer my freakles show, and got lucky on my look
Woman buety standard, man highet... one of the two is not the the outher
the standard is talking about the indistery, not what woman want, and there is a rise to do the same for man, and its not about highet its about mussles mass and chiled faces
There are women who think the first date should be Dutch. I think the first FEW dates should be. You haven't decided where you're going with yourselves and each other. Why not just pay for yourselves? Everyone should look DECENT. Look like you care and take care ofyourself. I can no more demand a man be 6 feet tall, or expect it, since I'm barely over 5 feet tall. And I don't care that much. But I've heard of this 6 feet 6 figures stuff. It's shallow and stupid. Avoid the shallow and stupid. In women or men.
I'm all about people being able to live within their means. A man or woman should be able to pay their bills and not expect that ANYONE ELSE SHOULD PAY THEIR WAY. That's the way I was raised. If a guy isn't making much, but he's fiscally responsible, that is good. I don't need to be wined or dined. I need good company and good fun.
Avoid who are seeking a mealticket. Avoid men who are bums. Fair is fair. Look for kind, fair people to date.
You won’t date a bum but Men do.— Okay he’s settling. Why should i?
You want equal rights as men but not willingly to pay the first date.— I’m all about fairness/fair chance more so than equalityYou want a man that’s 6’0” in height & makes $6 figures.— I want a man 5’7-6’2 who has a job that hopefully pays a minimum of 40k but its not a dealbreaker if it paid less. You call men ugly while you wear makeup.— I don’t wear makeup and ugly more so describes the persons attitude rather than their looks. You get pay more but you go for easy jobs and not dangerous jobs or stinking jobs.— I cannot disagree with this one but there are a few women wongo for harder jobs but still make less even if they had the same education, experience and talent.You hate women’s beauty standards but you want to keep men stranded.— What?
I don’t think it’s all women. Society makes us believe it’s all because of stereotypes. I’ve met women who take guys out on dates and others that won’t even look in the direction of a check during dinner. It’s all about finding the type of quality of people you want. Make your expectations clear in the beginning and see people for who they truly are. If someone lacks ambition, they’re probably not going to be a go getter. If they only care about physical appearance, they’ll most likely only care about vanity. See things as they are not what we want them to be.
You won’t date a bum but Men do. - it's men's problem not mine
You want equal rights as men but not willingly to pay the first date. - I offer to split usually.
you want a man that’s 6’0” in height & makes $6 figures. - just taller than me and affords himself
you call men ugly while you wear makeup. - don't really wear makeup and only call men ugly if they annoy me.
You get pay more but you go for easy jobs and not dangerous jobs or stinking jobs. - no idea.
you hate women’s beauty standards but you want to keep men stranded. - I'm good with the beauty standards.
This is the cliche standard. Please can we stop lumping men and women into separate clumps and complaining that they're all the same. Some women have stupid standards, some men do too. Plenty of both genders don't.
I swear education, and life experience is very valuable.
Or you end up thinking like this guy 🤣
You say "you won't" but you're putting us all on the same page. I can't tell you why because I can't relate to this post
Stay off of shitty dating sites you won't run into these basic bitches...
I don't know what kind of women you been talking to but this does not represent the majority.
Why don't we burn those standards for men, shall we?
I'm not a feminist and I don't think that men and women are equal. Please don't generalize
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