I was dating a girl for a couple months and she kept saying things like I'm cheap, or I feel bad for your exes if I'm getting the best version of you. During my most recent interaction with this person they entered my home asking to spit after a couple of minutes talking while sitting on my stool in the kitchen. She then proceeded to ask me where she could go ahead and release herself. I told her the sink and the bathroom toilet. She then said how the bathroom is too far and that she wanted to spit in the garbage. I told her no do it in the sink or outside then since the sliding doors to my backyard was nearby. After expressing her disgust for spiting in the sink she proceeded to grab my compost bin and spit in it. Afterwards she looked at me and said "see you're ok right?". I then replied " No, You don't listen". which lead her to storming out of my house and driving home. When I asked her why she left she said that she didn't appreciated being spoken to like a child. When I mentioned that she cannot walk into my house do the completely opposite of what I told her was ok for her to do and then expect me to be ok with it. When I asked for an apology she said " there's no reason for her to apologize and that I'm just a miserable person.
So I booked her.
She reached out via WhatsApp to mention how she deserves better treatment and that blocking her is mean.
Am I wrong for not being ok with someone not respecting my wishes in this instance?
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Was my reaction to an interaction with a girl I was dating uncalled for?
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Bro, I woulda flipped too if a girl pulled that kinda disrespect in my house. Like she didn't even ask proper before spewing in your compost - hell nah.
Plus all the cheap comments and "best version of you" jabs beforehand? She was clearly trying you already. Then to have the nerve getting mad YOU told HER off when she ignored your one simple request? That's wild entitlement.
Blocking her was probably too much, but in the moment I feel you. She deserved to catch some heat for that disobedient nonsense.
If I were you though, I'd unblock just to say your piece calmly. Like "Look I don't feel respected how you acted. Let's just leave it and not talk no more." No need arguing her lame excuses.
Then find you someone who appreciates you for real bro! This chick tainted the vibe - on to bigger and better things I say. You handled it better than me, that's for sure!
Your not in the wrong at all, one she's being mean calling you cheap and coming at you from all directions and then making a point to disrespect you in your own house- she was being manipulative and rude.