How are introvert men in approaching a woman if he is interested in her?

[Anonymous]

What would some of those signs be? I met this guy and he is quiet and reserved. his brother told me, he isn't the best at reaching out...

How does a gal know if an introvert is interested in a girl?

[Oliverlogan263]

Here are some signs an introverted guy may show if he's interested:

- He makes eye contact with you and holds it when you talk, even if he's shy about it. Introverts don't always make eye contact easily, so it's meaningful if he does.

- He listens intensely when you talk and asks questions to engage with you and learn more about you. This shows he wants to understand you better.

- He may open up about himself gradually over time as he gets comfortable. Don't expect a ton of sharing right away.

- He finds excuses to be near you, even if he doesn't say much. Proximity is a big deal for a shy guy.

- He pays attention to little details about you and remembers things you say. Introverts are observers.

- He may reach out one-on-one via text carefully to start getting to know you better in a lower pressure way.

- His body language relaxes and becomes more open when talking with just you. Introverts are more themselves with people they like.

Hope this helps! Let me know if you need any other tips on reading an introverted guy. We may be shy but our feelings are real.

[Asker]

Thanks, that was very helpful!!

[Asker]

Is there a way I could message you privately? Because I can't message you. You have replied to a few of my other questions as well and I like your responces.

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re very welcome and yes you can tell me your name and I will find to follow you so you can privately message me. Thank you 😊

[Anonymous]

In a very shy manner.

[Asker]

And whats that?

[Opinion Owner]

Insecure of himself and very quiet.

[Asker]

Do shy men wait till the girl reaches out? and not so good at initiating?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes they do.

[Asker]

What if a shy guy texts saying he thought about me while he was showering?

[Opinion Owner]

That's good.

[Asker]

why is it good? Does he think of me in a sexual way?

[Opinion Owner]

YES, IT DOES.

[Asker]

So that's all it is then! Nothing more substantial.

[Asker]

I thought because he might be shy, its actually bold and gutsy for him to say that. So I was just thinking, wow - he's actually put that out there, so he must have feelings of some sort or does he have a sexual tension towards me?