Will an introverted man pursue the woman he's interested in?

[Anonymous]

Will an introverted man pursue the woman he's interested in?

[Anonymous]

For me i probably would never approach even if i wanted to do so really bad. I don't know i guess I'm just too shy to do so. It sucks very much because i wished i could approach her. Because of this i feel i push the girl i fancy away. If you like him you should give him huge hints of interest. If not then try to be the one who initiates conversation.

[Asker]

I've tried and he was with his brother at the time and he didn't make a single peep. I just ended up small talking to the brother. He was soo shy he can't seem to look at me. I even tried to add him on instagram and it took him about 2 weeks to decline me. Hah. I just can't seem to move on... It sucks.

[Opinion Owner]

What kind of hints did you give him? He may be clueless.

How did you approach him? Maybe you intimidated him.

[Asker]

Should I try following him on instagram again or should I just move on?

[Opinion Owner]

Sure try that. Or if he has a Facebook then you can try adding him as a friend there.

[Opinion Owner]

Try talking to him in person. It'll probably be better. Why does he not look at you? Did he seem really shy?

[Asker]

Yes he will look away if I'm looking. He seems shy. I can't meet him in person because my best friend is his cousin and they are not close. They see each other for family parties. I'll try to follow him again but that's it...

[Asker]

I requested instagram follow but I did end taking it back. He denied me then so it's a done thing. I just need to move on...

[Opinion Owner]

I see. Try following him and see what happens
If you ever get a chance though try talking with him.

[Opinion Owner]

Yea okay, just move on.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you. You'll find the right guy ;)

[Longshot]

Possibly. I was that way for a very long time and it was a problem. I probably should have been with girls I had a crush on but I was both shy and introverted. As time went by, I got past it to the point of being a flirt, but it did not happen easily.

[Asker]

Thank you for your input!

[Serenity-chan]

An ex of mine was an introvert and I was the one who said hey I like you, etc. if it weren't. For distance things would've worked out, but I'm not gonna waste time.

[Anonymous]

Nope, I missed out several women already and hate myself for it.

It is like shooting moving targets, I wait and wait till I hit 100% and end up not going for it at all.

I hope that the target would have the courage to wink at me, hey you idiot shoot at me, I am single.

[Asker]

I've tried. I guess I just looked at his behavior as if he was interested in me and in reality he wasn't.

[atomique]

Yes and no. In my case my girlfriend had to drop a lot of huge hints that she liked me before I asked her out. Its important to be patience and clear with us introverts.

[Asker]

My hints were not enough I guess or he wasn't interested anyways.

[atomique]

She really really had to spell it out. On a post on her profile she described a guy that sounded a lot like me that she had fallen in love with. She was highly descriptive.

[Anonymous]

It's kind of in an introverted man's nature to not pursue. Hence "intro"verted.

[Forca]

Some will and some won't, I force myself too.

[zocca]

Eventually