But s reserved man caught my eye. He may even be shy I don't know.
I lile him because he seems like a good man and not a sexual predator.
Though opposites attract, similarities often provide more stability in a relationship. Introverts do very well with other introverts. Understand that introverts are not dysfunctional... they just tend to rely on structures to help them understand their place and value in any situation. All that's necessary is quality, clear, open, honest communication, and a willingness to be active equal partners. Introverts can get drained by attempting to keep up with extroverts. Introverts are more likely to stop and smell the roses... savoring the journey rather than rushing to get it over.
Very insightful post. I am wondering if a man like that could be my leader?
I can accept if a man isn't leading everyone else. But if you have a wife you have to lead her and the children.
@Ks8wbrsjs There is no universal right or wrong. Everyone is entitled to his/her perspective, but hopefully people won't assume what works for them will work for everyone. There are too many people in this world today who feel entitled to push their agenda onto others. The only way we can get respect is to give respect. A person's sexual orientation has nothing to do with how much control that person chooses to take in a relationship. You seem very opinionated for a subservient person. You may find it challenging to be with a master who doesn't do things your way.
@Asker I think he definitely could be your leader. Just ask him. Tell him that's what you want.
@Jamie05rhs thank you Jamie maybe I will have to do that when the time comes.
You're welcome! :)
Introverted men tend to have it pretty rough and have a hard time dating. You could absolutely pursue him, but it may take a bit for him to open up to you.
I wonder what you mean by that.
Introverted guys are invisible to people, especially women.
Oh. I noticed him because we are at work and his admirable qualities shine through in such an environment especially after a gear of observation. While more extroverted guys are busy hitting on everything that moves and being attention seeking arrogant jerks, Mr. introvert's hardworking, helpfulness, attentiveness and other qualities good for a husband became more apparent to me.
A lot of women are extroverted and proud to be sluts. So its no surprise they aren't looking for husband qualities. I really don't get them and they are like a different species to me but they probably are the representatives for women as well in many people's eyes 😂
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I am also an introvert person so i can totally relate to it that what you are sayin...
Introverted guys can be dominant in a relationship. I am
yes. an an introvert and a dominant.
How do I tell if this man is both?
honest and blunt discussions. eventually you both should discuss what all it is that you do and dont like sexually. during such discussions (assuming both are being fully honest) you both should be able to determine the dynamics and roles for you both, at least cursory. very often which is dom, sub, or switch will show up during this/these convo/s. i seek a partner with pretty decent intelligence so take such a convo a bit deeper with trying for why we each like what we like. even with that, there are some things i just like but can not explain why. for example am a guy with a couple of foot fetishes and beyond a cursory bit of real info, i do not really know why i have them, i just know i like the versions of foot fetishes that i like. some other fetishes i have i can explain quite well though.
as for getting to know someone, that is why though sex is highly important to me its not the only thing i want ir need from a partner and makes dating so complex for me. unlike some, i can see connrctions of a sort between most any one subject and any one other subject even if it involves bringing in one or more other subjects to reach that connection. this even relates to sexual things and completely non-sexual things in odd and/or twisted ways. hence my mind being very kinky and dirty. i can find a sexual connection to pretty much anything, usually as a way of using this kink or that. saddly my mind will even do that with kinks/fetishes that completely repulse me but because i still know of those kinks and that others are into them, my mind makes those connrctions as well.
yes. same way you build trust. you can't rush it. and once you start connecting, find deeper things to connect on. it is literally called "building a relationship". as you may be able to see, it is a pretty straight forward concept and aptly named because it says exactly what you do. you very literally build a relationship.
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