Guys would you approach an attractive girl who is introvert?

[Skyler123]

I ask because I'm an introvert. I'm the type of person who isn't fond of a lot of attention. I can only deal with so much in a given time I'd prefer to have attention from one person at a time so to speak. It makes me feel weird when ALL eyes are on me. I'm not the clingy type either If anything I like my space and would like to have my me time often.

I'm not a huge talker either. I mean if I don't have anything to say...I basically won't say anything. I like pretty much a lot of things guys like (except for football) I think I'm cute not so much to where I think I'm the sh*t but I get enough looks to know that guys find me attractive.

Any way guys, would you approach or consider dating an introvert?

[HardAppleCider]

In all honestly miss, I think that your personality type would be my preference (lower maintenance) though introverted women often times have a difficult time expressing interest, and generally don't enjoy being in situations where (from the men's perspective) picking up on women is fair game.

So, would I try? Yeah, if you're attractive. From my personal experiences though introverted women are more likely to act like they aren't interested even when they are and if I'm not getting any sign that my approach is working, I'm likely to call it quits. If the conversation keeps on going because I like you as a person, but I'm still not getting any signs of interest, I'm probably gonna end up friend zoning you (not my fault here; I can't control this).

All this said, I think it's even more important for introverted women to learn how to approach men than it is for extroverted women. Since simply being introverted works against you so much, this is something that can be done completely offset these disadvantages. When approaching you're less likely to "settle" for what you can get because the frequency of approach is completely up to you (this is an advantage normally had by men). Not only that, but this opens up your options to men that are introverted (less likely to approach you) which likely meshes better with your personality.

[ashtonm]

Omg! I wish I was near you because you'd mine miiiiiiiiiiine! :) I think those traits are awesome. I really don't like talking much unless it's necessary, would rather stay home, read, have tons of ME time, etc. All the stuff that doesn't work very well for a guy. :P Girls tend to like socially savvy guys who have fairly large social circles.

I PREFER girls like you, but since you're cute I probably wouldn't approach you because, well, cute girls are usually extremely extroverted because everyone talks them up.

[Mtsmith]

Yes. No need to talk all the time. Let me know what you like. If you are not in the mood to talk, just say that, so I won't think you are not interested.

Everyone has little quirks, life is learning how to deal with other peoples while trying to understand our own. You will be noticed, so go for it...

[TedStar]

Yes, I have in the past and I know I will do so again. If a girl is attracting me through looks or personality or whatever else I would approach regardless of what type of looks or personality that is.

Also I believe that most people have a mixture of both introverted and extroverted personality traits (ambiversion) dependent on how comfortable they are in a particular environment

[Skyler123]

This is very much true. I'm very much more outgoing and flamboyant when in the company of close family and friends. But even then I some times get tired of my family/friends and just want my me time. I really do prefer my own personal company the majority of the time.

[prophecy]

i like introverts.

i actually prefer that a girl is a bit more introverted than introverted (no one is just introverted or extroverted, there's always a mixture).

i can't stand constant japing about nonsense.

[Skyler123]

Haha, yeah I hate when people just ramble on. When I talk its usually because I need to, or to make a point. lol

[Konnour]

How can you know whether the girl is introvert or not before approaching her?

[Skyler123]

Sorry for he misunderstanding I meant given you are acquainted with her and know that she's some what shy. Well I'm not really shy I'll pretty much talk to anyone but you'd have to talk to me first. Haha, I'm not very good with introductions. :p

[MartinMarsh]

I don't see why I wouldn't. I can like both extroverted and introverted girls. Both have pluses.

[Skyler123]

Have you ever dated an introverted girl before?

[MartinMarsh]

Most girls I talk to aren't strictly introverted or strictly extroverted. As for if I've dated an introverted girl before. Lol, I can't recall. That isn't a deal breaker for me.

[Moloch]

Yeah but she has to send me signs though, that's her job.

[Skyler123]

One of the main signs an introvert will do to show she's interested is that she'll contact you regularly. We're not big on just throwing our self at a guy. If anything we do what guys do and kind of "test the waters" try to get some kind of sign from you that you like us. Back to what I said though if she likes you and is an introvert you'll hear from her regularly.

[Moloch]

And if you don't know her yet? The problem isn't when you know her already, it's actually getting to know one. What signs does she send if she doesn't know you yet.

[Skyler123]

Now THAT'S a tricky one. Naturally I'm on guard when I first meet a guy because I don't know what his intentions are. You just have to be friendly, I'm a nice girl so if you're friendly with me I'm friendly with you. Start off as friends just talking and getting to know each other, we like to take things slow. Once we know all kinds of cool crap about you that's when we determine whether or not we like you or not.

[Skyler123]

Naturally though I think most introverted women are attracted to extroverted men. I know that the majority of my exes were a whole lot more outgoing than I am. My current boyfriend is extrovert and loves interacting/meeting new people. I could care less about meeting new people however. lol

[Moloch]

Friendly to a person that looks on guard. Sounds Legit.

[Skyler123]

Dude, you wouldn't know I'm guarded! I told you before if you're friendly to me I'm friendly to you. I simply mean that if a guy wanted to date me they're going to have to take the time to become my friend first, get to know me etc. See where it goes from there.

[Moloch]

I know. But seriously, introverted girls usually give off the “don't f*** with me” vibe. I talk to women that look like they want to talk.

[Anonymous]

If you're cute most guys won't mind the other stuff.