Most Helpful Girl
I don't think you're doomed to fail. You just have to put yourself in the right environment. If you're in college you can join a fraternity, a club, or play a sport. If you have a job in a retail or restaurant environment you can meet people there. I don't think the bar scene is what you're looking for, but I do have friends who are in a relationship that started as a hook up. They are the exception though.
Most Helpful Guy
Got ya pegged for a troll but I'll humor it.
Guys whom are indeed good looking can expect the following:
- Mothers/aunts suggesting you either know their daughter or niece and suggest that you talk to her or go to the park to walk their dogs with them.
- Girls from work suggest you go out for sushi or give them rides to their place just because.
- Gym attendants needing to say goodbye to you when you could care less whether or not they do.
- Girls smile at you when you make eye contact but only really need her to throw some thrash away because they're headed in that direction.
All these situations definitely involve almost little to no effort on your part, good luck.