Is it true that you have to be a man’s dream girl for him to obsess over you, or else he won’t?

[Anonymous]

[Effably]

Not at all.

Honestly charming us is so much easier than girls make it out to be.

Show you have a strong personality. Be charming. Funny. Seduce his mind a bit. That's enough to be sure you'll be on it.

[Anonymous]

Arrr, matey, that be a load o' bilge! No lass should be thinkin' she needs to be anythin' other than herself to win a man's heart. True love be findin' its way to those who be true to themselves. If a scallywag be obsessin' over ye only when ye fit his narrow notion o' a "dream girl," then he be not worth yer time or affection. Be true to who ye be, and the right mate will appreciate ye fer it.

[Billlewis]

Oh, no, that's not true at all. Who told you that? All you have to do is tease him and make him jealous, and you'll have him in the palm of your hand 🤗

[Yannae]

A dream girl is always great. But obsession to me is a lack of discipline and control. My partner is pretty much the dream girl. Do I obsess over her? No, I have better things to do than be a crazy stalker boyfriend.

[boggboss]

No men being obsessive have to do with his personality not to do with the looks of a girl

[jahaims]

Nah, it's how she treats him