Can a woman ever become very obsessed with a man?

[DanaPonds]

Obsessed to the point she never wanted a break-up nor divorce. However, he doesn't want her anymore and left but she then takes things further by stalking him and trying to sabotage other relationships he might have. She refuses to take no for an answer. In her mind, if she can have him then no one else can.

Men are the ones prone to be obsessive and stalkish, becoming dangerous. But can a woman ever get that obsessed over a man too? I haven't heard of a woman like that.

[katiesmuff]

I'm sure it has happened many times. Gets pretty ugly in some cases likely.

[DanaPonds]

yeah it must be terrifying for a man to have a crazy, female stalker

[katiesmuff]

Deadly in some cases!

[KrakenAttackin]

We have two+ generations that are obsessed with the top 5% of men.

[DanaPonds]

Those are delusional girls thinking those men will commit. I was referring to a woman that has been in a relationship or even got married but things didn't work out because she was a toxic person, the man was the one that actually left and she turned crazy, stalking him,

[Chazmatazz269]

Happens all the time. It’s not a gendered issue.

[DrPepper12]

Of course! Ever seen Fatal Attraction?

[DanaPonds]

I've seen it long ago. Yes in a movie it sounds so crazy. Though I don't think I have heard of a real life case of a female stalking her previous partner and going that crazy over him.

[DrPepper12]

Not sure what part of USA is from but it's WAY to common among angry violent incels and educated, confident independent women.

[Anonymous]

Yes. They are even on gag.

[DanaPonds]

I think they're usually online stalkers but I guess it would be terrifying if a man was really being stalked for real (at his workplace or even near his property) by an ex girlfriend or ex wife.

[Opinion Owner]

Mental illness is real.

[Brady]

Yes, true stories of it.

[DanaPonds]

I've seen a movie where the female character got serious hurt when rejected and went psycho. Men would like to attract more women but I think that type of attention (a real female stalker that won't leave him alone at all) would be very scary.