How to find provider man?

[Anonymous]

I need braces and capital for business😭 how girlies find boyfriend that help them financially? I will spend 2-3 years for start, it’s better to make everything by yourself? And I don’t have experience in dating

[Xia1994]

Girl you need to sit down and ask yourself what you really want because it sounds like you want a sugar daddy… A boyfriend is only gonna pay for gifts like flowers earrings or dates that he asks you out on…

if you want a sugar daddy he’ll want sex from you as payment 🥲 I don’t advice that you get a sugar daddy!!! That’s dangerous rather get a job.

The only time a husband can pay for things like your braces is after he’s married you.

[Xia1994]

After a man marries you and your his wife then he can give you your capital or your braces cause then he’s your husband.

[Asker]

Actually I just want money😭😭 and emotional support and company to go on dates, and someone who will pay for my coffee if want to go study in some cafe and i will sit and wait and help me, and go mountain and do some activity, even go with me to gym😭😭😭

[Asker]

Maybe I trying to find someone who will solve all my problems and be my company and improve my life lol😭

[Xia1994]

I get that life can be hard dear and I understand what you mean! Please be careful be careful when choosing a man. Remember no one is perfect and no man is going to be perfect so he can’t fix all your problems but he can try to fix some, make sure you pick a nice guy 🥺 you sound cute! Be careful out there sweetie!.

Take your time choosing a man carefully put your safety first because its dangerous out here and if you are feeling a bit lonely reach out to friends and go out with your friends for some coffee or whatever you like.

Try to gain some independence so that if you get a man and he leaves you, you have work experience, and you know how to pay for things for yourself and you have money so you can be fine on your own, but you know not every man who is only a boyfriend to you will give you money for braces and to start a business usually men do those things for women they married. Boyfriends just keep you company, pay for dates and buy you cute little gifts.

[Asker]

I don’t have friends😭 I guess I’m being delusional cause I listen to “sprinkle sprinkle” lady, and I agree that she’s right but I’m just not on that level of beauty when someone will truly love me I don't know. It’s really hard being alone and only thing that can fix my problems is money. If I would improve my looks and become more successful I will find friends and boyfriend and etc.
yeah it is maybe more safe to make everything by yourself but sometimes you need emotional support. I don’t think even boyfriends able to just be with you when you need it without wanting something in return. I’m cute enough to be wanted but not enough to make someone want to just be around me. And maybe for other girls it’s something regular but not for me. Or maybe I have mental problems that make hard to communicate with people.

[Asker]

And actually I don’t have options to choose😭 so that’s why I’m asking

[Xia1994]

Okay I see, please stop listening to sprinkle sprinkle lady, we only watch her to laugh cause she can be funny but really she teaches women how to be hoes and sugar babies hun! That woman is teaching lies. In life you can’t have everything sprinkle sprinkle is teaching girls how to get a man to support you financially but she doesn’t teach you how to make healthy friendships with other women, she doesn’t give women emotional support, she doesn’t teach you how to keep a man and build a healthy relationship with him, she doesn’t teach you how to be independent as a way to be a better partner or mother one day.

Rather watch content creators like this
https://youtu.be/BqDNfkze8J8?si=3DtYChH_ebnPHul2

We are all struggling in life even married people and people in good relationships are struggling, life is not easy, it’s just that we all do our best to keep trying and to keep the friendships or relationships we love going. It takes a lot of work, sacrifice and effort but it can be worth it!.

Keep asking questions, keep learning and keep growing and best of luck with everything 💗.

[Xia1994]

By saying in life you can’t get everything I mean that nothing is perfect, no one has a perfect relationship or friendship or job nothing is perfect you need to find the imperfections from life that you can live with and be great full for the little things 💗

[Asker]

Thanks for advices and support!💖✨ I will watch video you recommended to try change my mind!!❤️‍🩹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[Xia1994]

You’re very welcome!!! 😊 💗💗💗💗

[Nikki1989]

You don't need a man to do any of that.

[Asker]

You never dated and never received any help? Just curious

[jamesgoldman]

Do it yourself, I started with nothing when I hauled scrap

I have a few hundred when I got into gold/silver

Now I have £5,000 and borrowed another £5,000 because cashflow

[glennos89]

Guys aren't walking wallets! Girls like you ruin the whole dating experience for guys and also for the woman who are genuinly looking for love! Get a life and earn your own money!

[Asker]

Man more logic when they choose women. They only want body and servant, and can use girl for 10 years and then marry another one in several months. They want women who will give free sex, Cook and clean, and also pay 50/50. He will save his money to spend on another. If man doesn’t pay for women he just user. It’s more risk for women to become pregnant and single mom so she should find good provider man. “Love” created by broke man. It’s funny how 50 years old man not fall in love with 50 years old women, cause they want young body. But if women want save future for herself and provider man she’s bad?

[glennos89]

Your understanding about how relationships work is really messed up. In my point of view a good relationship is about 2 people being a team. They are lifting eachother up to a higher level. That means supporting eachother in both good and bad times. It doesn't matter who earns the most money or who does the household tasks, what matters is that you reach a common goal together and support eachother in difficult situations. Most of the times ( traditional) the man provides the finances and the woman takes cares of the household but if the woman earns the income and the man does the householding tasks that's fine as well. What matters is that you both work together to achieve your goals as a team

[Asker]

Yeah you will achieve something with women and left at her 40th with kids to find 20 years old lol. You can’t be equal with women you can’t give a birth

[glennos89]

You are without a doubt a feminist aren't you? 💯

[Asker]

u just want young naive girl to use her body and being cheap, or use older women to build yourself, no “love” here

[glennos89]

You are totally making up wrong assumptions about me. You don't know me, you certainly don't know what I want and seek in a relationship so please stop spreading your made up bs pls

[LazerBean]

You, take care of yourself.

[Asker]

Girl you have bf😭 i 100% he pays for meals and every activity you guys do together

[LazerBean]

I'm married. When we were not married, I didn't let him pay for anything that was more than $15. Its honestly shameful to want financial help from someone who is just a boyfriend.

[Asker]

Girl what? One dinner cost more than 30$ I don’t believe u

[LazerBean]

Just keep being a shameful loser then 🤷🏽‍♀️

[Asker]

Girl 😂 I didn’t dated yet and didn’t use any poor guy lol. You definitely lying that you married guy that didn’t even pay for meal. And 15$? If dinner costed 50$ you paid 35$ and he’s 15?😂 please don’t give advices if u not can’t example yourself loser

[Asker]

You’re loser that can’t openly say that you married provider man and acting like you’re strong independent women and shaming other girls 😂😂

[LazerBean]

Wow I really triggered you. I did marry a provider man, but I was just right by parents who don't believe in giving or taking marriage benefits when you aren't married. My parents would be ashamed if I was doing what you're trying to do.

[Asker]

Uhm I said I don’t believe u and you called me loser. If you have different opinion okay, but you can’t fit your own standards cause I obviously triggered calling you liar

[Anonymous]

Do it yourself it’s 2024, equality.

[Asker]

Man and women not equal. Women give more in relationships. I will not pay for anything if I will be with man. Maybe I will make money for myself but I will not date man for free anyways

[Opinion Owner]

lol well unless you’re cute you don’t have a chance. No women don’t always give more in relationships. Some do some don’t. The same as men.

[Asker]

Well if he’s not paying for me, he better go and find someone he truly likes and provide, and not waste my time

[Opinion Owner]

Good luck. You have an attitude that will keep you by yourself. Sure dudes may screw you but they won’t commit. Not a that entitled mentality.

[jahaims]

Might as well be a prostitute

[Asker]

Yeah talk about “love”, will you date 40 years old women? No? Cause you want young body? How it’s possible never provide for women while dating her lol unless you immediately marry her without dating stage

[jahaims]

She can support herself while dating. You know, like adults do.

[Asker]

Fair if u will wait till marriage

[Luckycharms12]

Go to bank and get a loan

[Anonymous]

Do it yourself. That's the easiest way.