Is it a bad idea I asked him to pay my drive?

[jenbrettty67]

He asked me to come visit for the first time I asked him to pay for my drive did I do anything wrong?

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Ohh I see

[ManOnFire]

No offense - and correct me if I'm wrong - but you kinda look like you might be an escort. And you're trying to word the question in a way that sounds like it's a date, when it's actually an exchange, if you get what I mean. Escorts often try to get their customers to pay for the ride to the guy's place, and that's what it seems like here.

[spartan55]

Didn't even think about this angle. I bet you are 100% correct.

[ManOnFire]

@spartan55 Even her profile is suspect. Her entire look spells escort to me, there are ones around my area that have almost the same appearance and body language. You learn to recognize them, and avoid them as well.

[worldscolide]

Holy shit dude i bet you're right.

[spartan55]

@ManOnFire
She didn't seem fazed by my inappropriate remark about her boobs either, which seemed odd.

[ManOnFire]

@spartan55 There's your answer. They don't mind that stuff.

[Dinklex3]

I think it shows that the interest is one sided if you don’t want to invest any money towards seeing him. I could understand if you asked for half since you’re the one doing the driving (I don't know how far). I think if it’s under a 3 hour drive it’s a bit stingy to request gas money. Otherwise, I think it’s fair since you’d be the one putting in all the effort.

Nothing right or wrong.

[jenbrettty67]

Ok no problem

[elizamichale1]

I think it is unless it was for business purposes coz if its a date kind of thing then it is something based on mutual liking so i see it as selfishness in tht case

[elizamichale1]

Thanks for the mho honey

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

What does that mean? Like did you drive to him and then expect him to pay for the gas? I operate by 100% gentlemen so you wouldn't be driving in the first place. That's confusing me a lot. You shouldn't have to ask him to pay anything because he'll pay everything. I don't understand today anymore.

[jenbrettty67]

Okay no problem

[Summeroflove]

Not sure what the photos are about. Well…. He isn’t entitled for you to come see him. If he doesn’t want someone asking him to pay, and you don’t want to pay to see him. Maybe you aren’t meant to be?

[HelpfulWoman]

lmao for the weird thirst trap photos.

yes, you're wrong if you can't put in BASIC effort into dating and taking advantage of men.

[jenbrettty67]

What do you mean

[msc545]

So it's a two and a half hour drive and you are worried about being paid for driving for two and a half hours? Seriously?

That would be about 150 mi so if you have a car that gets 30 miles per gallon and you pay $3 that is a whole $15 in expenses. If you are so broke or so cheap that you can't afford $15 on this project you probably shouldn't go at all.

[LonerInLife]

So if he drives to visit you, are you going to pay for his drive? Or is this going to be a case where because you’re a woman, you expect the guy to always pay?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Nowadays people ask for all kinds of unusual stuff so I guess it’s not a bad idea especially if he’s getting a little boom boom out of the deal & if he’s not don’t be surprised if he tells you to walk instead.

[EmmaMary]

Just where do your pictures fit in with all this?

[TommyMountainFigure]

Well he can't expect you to do your job for nothing, but was the payment agreed before or after the transaction?

[Fireguy17]

are you paying for him to drive to your place?
If that answer is yes, then by all means go ahead and ask.
Otherwise think about how that makes you look.

[worldscolide]

And people wonder why men see a slot of women as gold diggers, you literally made your self a prostitute by making him pay to see you in person.. Smh..

[lorenzomichael]

It all depends if he had asked you to buy him some beer on the way to his house after he paid for your gas would you do it?

[jenbrettty67]

Okay thanks

[lorenzomichael]

That's not an answer. It's a yes or it's a no.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I mean he invited you and if you got no ride how else would that happen

[shortster]

You never ask someone for money before you meet them in person.

[jenbrettty67]

Really

[shortster]

Yes, that is what scammers do. I always offer to meet someone at the gas station if they need gas money. To date only one person agreed, but she never showed up.

[Sameone]

That's was so mean my dear

And why u posting pic doesn't match whit your question ⁉️

[Pohjolan]

Yes you should just have told him to visit you if you are broke.

Asking money for a uber or plane ticket is a common scam tactic.

[QuietRunner]

No sounds like a valid request

how long was the drive?

[jenbrettty67]

2 and half hours

[QuietRunner]

yeah

he should pay

[Anonymous]

Come on people

[MaxUsefull]

40 y old and you still don’t know how to start a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I hope you "compensated" him for the drive expense.

[spartan55]

Were you unable to afford the gas to travel?

[spartan55]

If he wants to fondle those big boobs he will gladly sponsor your trip.

[jenbrettty67]

Okay thanks

[Nikki1989]

Sounds fair to me.

[sheikalana]

No, you didn't do anything wrong.

[TonyMetal___86]

No wonder why he paid your drive 😏

[spartan55]

Those boobs are quite the incentive.

[TonyMetal___86]

@spartan55 who said that there's only a delivery for food and items, here's a delivery for sex 🤣🤣

[spartan55]

@TonyMetal_86
Full service kind of gal.

[TonyMetal___86]

@spartan55 and you can change the girl if you don't like her physical looks, they say that you have only 1 chance to change her at the time of delivery, it's a full business with rules and sh*t 🤣

[Wise4myage]

No, not in my opinion.

[Billlewis]

No, ma'am.

[In_Trance]

That's sus

[Sam12348]

You should pay lol