No offense - and correct me if I'm wrong - but you kinda look like you might be an escort. And you're trying to word the question in a way that sounds like it's a date, when it's actually an exchange, if you get what I mean. Escorts often try to get their customers to pay for the ride to the guy's place, and that's what it seems like here.
@spartan55 Even her profile is suspect. Her entire look spells escort to me, there are ones around my area that have almost the same appearance and body language. You learn to recognize them, and avoid them as well.
I think it shows that the interest is one sided if you don’t want to invest any money towards seeing him. I could understand if you asked for half since you’re the one doing the driving (I don't know how far). I think if it’s under a 3 hour drive it’s a bit stingy to request gas money. Otherwise, I think it’s fair since you’d be the one putting in all the effort.
I think it is unless it was for business purposes coz if its a date kind of thing then it is something based on mutual liking so i see it as selfishness in tht case
What does that mean? Like did you drive to him and then expect him to pay for the gas? I operate by 100% gentlemen so you wouldn't be driving in the first place. That's confusing me a lot. You shouldn't have to ask him to pay anything because he'll pay everything. I don't understand today anymore.
Not sure what the photos are about. Well…. He isn’t entitled for you to come see him. If he doesn’t want someone asking him to pay, and you don’t want to pay to see him. Maybe you aren’t meant to be?
So it's a two and a half hour drive and you are worried about being paid for driving for two and a half hours? Seriously?
That would be about 150 mi so if you have a car that gets 30 miles per gallon and you pay $3 that is a whole $15 in expenses. If you are so broke or so cheap that you can't afford $15 on this project you probably shouldn't go at all.
So if he drives to visit you, are you going to pay for his drive? Or is this going to be a case where because you’re a woman, you expect the guy to always pay?
Nowadays people ask for all kinds of unusual stuff so I guess it’s not a bad idea especially if he’s getting a little boom boom out of the deal & if he’s not don’t be surprised if he tells you to walk instead.
are you paying for him to drive to your place? If that answer is yes, then by all means go ahead and ask. Otherwise think about how that makes you look.
And people wonder why men see a slot of women as gold diggers, you literally made your self a prostitute by making him pay to see you in person.. Smh..
Yes, that is what scammers do. I always offer to meet someone at the gas station if they need gas money. To date only one person agreed, but she never showed up.
