Is it weird to enjoy dating my former babysitter?

[Anonymous]

We've been on quite a few dates now and I've really enjoyed them. She recently introduced me to her friends as her boyfriend, and that made me very happy. I had a crush on her when she babysat me, but was too afraid to say so.

[Anonymous]

Age difference in dating can be tricky, especially if there was a caregiver role involved. The key is if the power balance feels fair now. If you were a teenager when they babysat you and you're both mature adults now, go for it! But if it feels a little bit like they're still in a position of authority, it might be best to move on. Trust your gut!

[Asker]

I was 8 when she started.

[Abbycado]

No. If you are both adults and enjoy each other, then why not? I mean, if there is a huge age gap some might view it as weird, but it only matters you two are happy.

[Asker]

11 year age gap.

[Abbycado]

Not trrrible. As long as you two are good, all that matters.

[Rangers]

It's a bit irregular, but not weird. It's not like she's your sister

[Taniisokay]

How much the age gap?

[Asker]

I'm 25 and she's 36.

[Taniisokay]

That's fine then you are both adults. If it's a fantasy game then that's another story. Hopefully you find someone whos younger.

[Asker]

What if I don't want someone who's younger?

[Taniisokay]

Most women aren't into youngsters. But yeah if you are happy with current woman which is much older then you then by all means congratulations. Do she got offspring? Kids?

[Asker]

No, she doesn't want them, neither do I.

[Taniisokay]

I will pray for ya then. Many people around me regret not having kids when they were able too. You may change your mind as you are in your 20s unlike your woman which I feel bad for her for that decision. Good luck with your life.

[BarryLiverstone]

Why ask this question anonymously?

[Asker]

Why wouldn't I?

[BarryLiverstone]

Because you don’t have to. You can ask questions that show your username like most people do

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s weird