Relationship in January with my girlfriend who is an single mother wit child at 5 years old. Before we dating and got serious. We had a conversation about how she allow her child father to stay with her in her apartment on random nights. i did mention that if me and her was serious about a possible relation that she need to first of all stop allowing the child father to stay with her. at the time he did not work and not had a place to stay. She opened about how her child's father was a good dad to their 5 year old son. However he was not all that great with her in the relationship. He cheated multiple times. He had other women call her asking can they be with her child's father. even one day a so woman called my girlfriends phone asking my girlfriend if it was ok to be around her child because she was liking the babydad a lot.
She mentioned that she is not in love or liking her babydad anymore and that she only allowed her child's father to spend the night because he didn't have a place to sleep at night. Suppose the babydad family is not willing to take care of there family member that Suppose needs some assistance. She mentioned to me that not only did she allow him to stay the night in her one bedroom apartment but that she claims he had to sleep on couch. She even told me that she claimed to have had another guy she talked to just to not be in a relationship with babydad. a lot of this seems weird. There was and I mean many times in the beginning when me and my girlfriend first met that we would talk on the phone for hrs almost everyday. Sametime the babydad was on her couch knowing she was talking to someone else which was me. Lmao. She told me that they had a understanding where they was only around for the child but as a relationship she denied all of it when it came 2 her child father.
Also they talk or either text everyday because earlier today I did bring how I feel they conversate to much. She reply that he is only asking about their son.
Please help.
She mentioned that she is not in love or liking her babydad anymore and that she only allowed her child's father to spend the night because he didn't have a place to sleep at night. Suppose the babydad family is not willing to take care of there family member that Suppose needs some assistance. She mentioned to me that not only did she allow him to stay the night in her one bedroom apartment but that she claims he had to sleep on couch. She even told me that she claimed to have had another guy she talked to just to not be in a relationship with babydad. a lot of this seems weird. There was and I mean many times in the beginning when me and my girlfriend first met that we would talk on the phone for hrs almost everyday. Sametime the babydad was on her couch knowing she was talking to someone else which was me. Lmao. She told me that they had a understanding where they was only around for the child but as a relationship she denied all of it when it came 2 her child father.
Also they talk or either text everyday because earlier today I did bring how I feel they conversate to much. She reply that he is only asking about their son.
Please help.
