Somethings been tearing me apart?

[relax24]

somethings been tearing me apart for a very long time. and that's been constantly told nobody will ever love you. or you will never have children.

i guess my question is what do you do when you finally found someone. but only find out many years later they don't want children.

I said clearly we both want different things. maybe it's best if we go our separate ways. but she didn't want that and has ended up staying with me

[SueShe]

It has been an error not to talk about your wish to have children in the early stages of your relationship and to have found only years later that she did not want any.

If having children of your own was so important, you should have made it clear from the start that you would not continue that relationship since you could not find a compromise. Now, it is too late because if you separate now, it will impact you much more than if you would have done it years ago.

Your time is ticking away and you can still find a woman that is willing to have children but it would have to be a woman that is not past her early thirties because the older she is, the more potential problems are linked with her age. Good luck.

[laly520]

best is to end it n get with a woman who would want to have kids with u