How to tell if I’m good looking?

[Anonymous]

I get a lot of mixed emotions. I consider myself a handsome guy because of my experiences but then I’m like wait……. no girlfriend, been rejected a dozen times. Hmm….
But then I think, I have it all going for me physically. But then all these doubts come in

I’ve done howdoilook questions and I’ve had very positive and negative feedback. But can they be trusted?

There’s no way to tell

There are ways to tell

[Oliverlogan263]

Man, comparing yourself to others and trying to figure out if you're "good looking" is a losing game. Best thing is to focus on being confident in yourself for who you are.

Some things that help:

- Hit the gym if you don't already. Working out feels good mentally and physically, and being fit never hurts. But do it for you, not to please others.

- Dress nice. Find a style you feel comfortable in and learn how to put outfits together well. Looking put together shows you care.

- Smile more! An easy smile can light up your face in a really appealing way.

- Hold your head high and make eye contact when talking to people. Signals you're comfortable and self-assured.

- Don't sweat the rejections too much. Dating is a numbers game and most people get denied plenty before meeting the right fit. Just mean you're putting yourself out there.

- Appreciate your other great qualities - sense of humor, kindness, passions, whatever. You've got way more to offer than just looks too.

Confidence comes from internally, not what others think. Believe in yourself, your worth isn't defined by relationships or opinions. As long as you like the guy in the mirror, that's what really matters dude. You got this!

[Anonymous]

Maybe it’s your personality or the way you approach women that needs work? Your physical attractiveness is only gonna take you so far but your personality is what gets you in.

[Anonymous]

Look at the attractiveness of the woman you attract.

[Asker]

A mixture, really pretty and not so pretty