How do you know if you are good looking?

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Seriously, how do people know for sure?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

normally unless you were like fat growing up or have some severe self esteem issues or something, if you're good looking you should know it. but if you dont know there's a couple easy ways:

- how attractive are the people who want to fuck you, date you, that you have dated etc. if you look good a lot of the people if not most will be good looking. though it's normal if some average looking, and sometimes worse try stuff with you or are into you romantically. though if most people who are interested you aren't good looking, or you never get good looking people's attention in that way that's a sure sign you're not cute

- people have always told you you're good looking, and frequently you get compliments on your looks from a variety of different people, especially strangers. also if people want to rank the looks of people in your class, you're at the top. if people are talking who's the hottest people of your gender at your job, you're in the top. you're probably already known as the pretty person in whatever environment you go

- most of your friends are good looking. people tend to be friends with people of a similar looks level. how your friends look can give you an indication of that

- if you notice people treat you nicer than other people, that's also a sign

- if no one has ever called you ugly, and no one has really said you were average

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

People stare at you or take a second look at you when they see you on the street or anywhere in public  You get pretty privilege (people give up seats, let you cut in line, get freebies) People can be mean to you  Babies and kids smile at you even animals are nice to you 🤣  Strangers approach you asking you for directions, sell you stuff  You’ve been asked out on dates a lot  Either you get too many compliments or you don’t at all

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

This is more complicated for men. But I noticed that good looking men are given a lot more societal leeway to joke, flirt, stare, etc compared to average men.

Also if you are unattractive woman and you think people unfairly judge you then should what it’s like for unattractive men. They judged for looking “creepy” or worse “threatening” all the time by women in particular who doesn’t know them well. Especially if they are big and/or athletic guys.

It’s one of the reasons ugly guys are usually have a sense of humor. Because they have to.

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

because people do check you out or stare... at how good something about you looks... and it keeps happening through life

could be good looking body, the smile... the eyes, could be great hair... also appearance and style, attitude and confidence... or few/all these combined

and also, people just tell you about it sometimes... lol

Fashionista Amy · Accepted Answer

Oh, beauty, right? That’s like the never-ending story! Truly, knowing if you're good looking comes down to a mix of personal confidence and the vibes you get from others. When you feel good in your skin, it shines through and people notice. Compliments can be a sweet indicator, but remember, real beauty radiates from your confidence, how you treat others, and that sparkle in your personality. Think about what makes you feel best about yourself – it could be your smile that lights up the room or your amazing sense of style. Focus on those positive feelings and, believe me, others will see it too. What makes you feel most confident?

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alice55 · Answer

Lots of people had told me and many guys ask me out / stare at me intensely (even guys that have girlfriend which is very gross), nobody ever said one single bad things about my appearance in all my life even people who hated me (and even my grandmother who love saying shit about it and criticize me all the time have never said a single bad things about my appearance, only heard praise).

People also give me reduction out of the blue and free invitation. Lots of catcall in the street and by seller.

Also one time I went to an Asian market and they kept serving me first (while others people were waiting who they completely ignored and gave me reduction without me asking for anything).

Too every guys think I have a boyfriend while I have none.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

When people see me for the first time, they compliment on your looks, especially the guys
Guys turn their heads when you walk by. People stare at you.
You're no stranger to getting cat called.
Guys talking to you will turn into an adorable bundle of nerves.
People will like you, those superficial people. Laugh at everything you say, you don't have to try to have them nod their head and go "Yes, anything you say"
Your DMs no matter where you go will be full of people trying to hit on you.
Other girls will dislike you for seemingly no reason but they see you as a threat, jealous.
If you accidently touch a guy, it might happen that they twitch or jump up, that's how nervous they are.

GuyAnswersGirls123 · Answer

I just saw it in terms of how easy or difficult it is to accomplish social goals like making new friends, getting dates with women I actually liked a lot, things like this.

If I was having a difficult time, I figured I might benefit from changing my look a bit. I just kept experimenting that way until I found the most successful looks.

zagor · Answer

You can't just go by people telling you as some may be trying to make you feel better. It's more how people react to you. A guy I knew got flagged down by a woman while driving so she could give him her number. If flight attendants hang out and converse with you, waitresses linger at your table, strangers at a club seem to be loitering in front of you a good part of the night, then you're probably good looking. That is from a guys perspective. For girls, I guess if a lot of guys ask for your number or if everyone seems to turn their heads when you walk by, that is a good indicator.

I was on Fremont Street in Las Vegas a couple years ago and one of the girls working at one of the streetfront bars got up on the bar and started doing a little dance. Every guy on the street, from 12 to 72, seemed to stare transfixed. Yeah, she was VGL.

Justin4563 · Answer

Well in my situation when I was a senior in high school I was voted best looking in our senior class. So if you’re like me that is one way to know🤷🏼‍♂️ I’m a little older now I’m 43 the people still comment all the time about how good-looking I am. When I was in my 20s and 30s people were just randomly stare at me …men and women that’s one way to know…

EmmaMary · Answer

Only by both my husband and family constantly telling me! lol

bobalife · Answer

when I walked in a room, there are glances and stares. Or I sit down at a restaurant, but I feel stares and looked up to find it.

I will be driving, guys would smiled up at me and even had them driving my pace to try to catch my attention and still starring at me. Or I had my windows down, they tried to talk to me lol.

when I get close to a guy or looked up at him, he might get nervous or smile on.

compliments.

likes on my story selfies/DMs on my social media.

exitseven · Answer

You can tell by the way the opposite sex acts towards you. If you are a guy, when you approach a girl at a club she will pay attention to you instead of looking around the room or telling you she had to go pee.

mandyfire98 · Answer

Overall it's by conditioning. Same way you know you're good at your job or other things. It's repetition over the years of being told by different people on a steady basis that you are.

lilBigPotato · Answer

Beauty is subjective but the more other people will compliment your looks the more beautiful you are according to common standards

Billlewis · Answer

A woman never really knows for sure if she's attractive or not. What makes her attractive is that she believes she is, acts as though she is, which results in other people believing that she is, as well.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I just know... from inside but also from others... the stares, sometimes comments and a lot of interest :D

Nikki1989 · Answer

Damned if I know. I don't think you ever know for sure.

normalice · Answer

For men it is how much misbehavior people tolerate.

NYlatefun · Answer

The attention you get from other people. And it’s obviously the other gender but even your same gender treat you in a particular way.

Berweic · Answer

If the people around you frequently shower you with compliments, you are.

Stacy0706 · Answer

People telling I am or people starring or could cause I’m tall.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I shatter mirrors, merely by looking at them!

NewgodOmega · Answer

If you are a girl you get lot of attention  No one on planet earth cares about guys so no one cares if a guy a good looking

Anonymous · Answer

If your mom tells you you're good looking, you're definitely not good looking.

Anonymous · Answer

If a little 4 year old tells you you're pretty without anyone telling them to tell you. They don't lie. Lol 😂

Jennz6 · Answer

Everyone says that I am Beautiful

Anonymous · Answer

Overwhelming attention from guys and that girl is pretty but that's an awful shag cut. Oh good, it is possible to block the droid.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Basically by people telling you

Dongie · Answer

Useing a mirror. That's something I rarely do since turning 50

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

When dogs wiggle their tail when they see me. 😅

laly520 · Answer

from others

Abdulwahh · Answer

Beauty lies im the eyes of the beholder but to truly answer your question there are universal standards of beauty

Kelly6 · Answer

Others tell me

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

You know by the way people treat you

strateguy632 · Answer

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