Guys, Is she interested or not?

[Anonymous]

Met a girl a few weeks ago and she asked me to go to the bar with her. We talked for hours and had a good time. Couple days later I asked her out and she completely changed the subject and we didn't text much after that.

My first thought was she isn't interested. Now a week goes by and she's asking me to see a show with her this weeked. (I haven't responded yet). Any thoughts?

[Sceprent]

Well. This sorta happened with me I guess. Invited a couple girls out for pool, they beat me to it, but invited me to play with them. So we did and we had a good time so I invited them out for the next weekend, but replies were slow and it was like we’ll see if you’re around next weekend!


So next weekend I’m ready to go play… at gym then going to pool right after. Get a hey we’re going out with some new friends do you want to join?


I’m thinking uhh weird. So I go play by myself at a random time. The girls show up with a couple guys and are like hey join us… and I’m like no I already paid for a table.


Afterwards the girls were like we thought we made a friend with you. And I was like “I didn’t like your approach I invited you a few days ago and nothing then you show up with a couple guys and how are we gonna do 5 players?” Don’t wanna hang w 4 people I don’t know.


She sounds like the same deal. Other plans fell through? I’m not your plan B. If I have more value towards you then I won’t be around you.

[Asker]

Yea could be, not entirely sure. Already told her i thought she was very attractive. i feel the same way as you though. Not looking for a friend.

[DaveJord]

Don't over think it. Go on the date and say yes.