Do you think looks are brutal?

[Anonymous]

As a guy I think looks are so brutal. I can’t even find love cause of the way I look. There’s no way left I can improve myself. It’s over, I’m 25 soon. There’s no light at the end of the tunnel.

I have to accept a life of singleness. I’m also not white and coloured.

Looks are brutal

No they’re not

[SueShe]

Looks are only brutal if you believe they are. It is up to you to change the way people perceive you. Looks are not everything and looks fade with time. You may perceive yourself as physically unattractive but what about the opinion of others? It is not because you have declared and decided that your looks are brutal that everyone must have the same opinion.

What about the inside? What about character and personality? I would much rather be with a person that has a good character and personality and perhaps not such great looks than the opposite, a guy that looks good but is a red flag in many different ways.

Furthermore, you are not even 25 and you have still plenty of time to find the right person.

[Anonymous]

25?

I know an old guy that got married at 72.

[Iron_Man]

Well, yes, looks are very important attraction that’s what gets your foot in the door if you look like the elephant man, most women are not gonna talk to you unfortunately but then after the looks its all about personality and character and heart but that’s the first thing that gets your foot in the door is looks, I’m just giving you an honest opinion. sometimes if you work out with weights and start getting pumped up, it will help you out if you don’t have the best looking face but a little bit

[BonzoInBitburg]

There's only so much you can do with your looks but there's lots of other things you can do to make yourself attractive. Try to upgrade your style by being well groomed, wear proper fitting good clothing, get your career on the right path and improve your personality to become a helluva guy. There's a lot that can attract a woman beyond looks

[Avicenna]

take care of yourself, make yourself a more interesting a dateable person. Looks are not everything to women.