Would you get tired of a girl who keeps saying she's gay?

[Anonymous]

My friend has a boyfriend but keeps telling him he's not her type and she was in love with a woman and has crushes on women. How would this make you feel as a man? I personally think its sad and he deserves a woman who loves men. If I had a boyfriend who talked about liking men it would hurt me and turn me off.

[Mr_twoface]

Any man would surely be upset over the situation, however, as men we are also often triggered by sexual thoughts so he may be one of those men who has thought of sexual scenarios where they indulge into threesomes with another woman or is open to the idea of her being bisexual. I was dating a women who after a while stated that she has in the past 6 months been in a sexual romance with another woman and had still some sexual feelings towards other women. She revealed this in midst of us talking about a future together etc. Whilst I obviously got upset about her not being transparent with me, my thoughts also wandered into the unknown of her might be a closeted bisexual and may be open for threesomes and more. Whilst the relationship lasted I didn't pursue that thought but my point is that, whilst no man wants to hear its partner may be a lesbian, they won't let go immediately cause the sex part of mind takes over and suggest alternative outcomes.

Whilst generally it is hot for men watching two women satisfy each other, not the same scenario can be played out for two men.

[JHAYES317]

Yes I’d just tell her to dump her boyfriend and stop bringing it up