My date looks at other women. How to call him out without looking insecure?

[Anonymous]

My new date look & make eye contact other women when I'm there. I like him, How to call him out without looking insecure or crazy?

[HateyouxD]

Nah he's playing the dreading game. He's trying to make you so insecure you'll stay with him. Please leave. He's not worth it

[Asker]

What is the dreadig game?

[HateyouxD]

I learned it's to make the girl miserable pretty much to gain control of her feelings basically

[HateyouxD]

But he has a wondering eye. I always say do it back to them and see how they like it

[DrPepper12]

It's selfish and rude tbh. I think this is one of those things where you just have to blurt it out and let the trip forward they may.

[Asker]

Why you mean blurt it out? and let the trip forward?

[DrPepper12]

Chips fall. Get over anxiety and advocate.

[Asker]

Lol I don't understand

[TallAnon]

Why would you? Think that's going to change his behaviour? It won't.

[JoeGoldberg]

why are you with him when he has a wondering eye babe 🥲

[Asker]

I'm attracted to him

[JoeGoldberg]

Okay? But is he attracted to you just as much? find someone better. He is just a boy.

[Asker]

He suddenly kissed me and hugged me. Not me.

[Pennywise_6]

Dear, he's not even worth your time.

[Asker]

Why?

[Pennywise_6]

A guy who is interested with a girl will never make his date feel insecure of others girls. He will do his best to make that girl he is dating special in every way.

[Pennywise_6]

That guy you're seeing has other things in mind.
You deserve better.

[Asker]

Like what kind of things in mind?

[Asker]

What did you mean?

[garykingg]

He's playing you like a harp.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[garykingg]

It's quite obvious he doesn't respect you at all.
But you like him and you respect him.

Sad.

[Asker]

So? What should I do?

[garykingg]

You clearly like this dude don't you?
Even though he has ZERO respect for you, you cling to him like a child.

Just ignore it.
Ignorance is bliss.

[Asker]

HE keeps me asking out, HE keeps asking questions about me&my family. HE kissed me end of the date, I wasn't going to. I'm not the one pursuing relationship with him.

[garykingg]

Every guy does that to the girl they are seeing, it doesn't necessary mean he is committed to you or that you are in anyway special to him.

Guys usually pursue first in the relationship, and now that he knows he got you, he's keeping his eye out for a better woman to come by.

When that happens, I think he would leave you.

So my advice is just ignore it, and let fate happen.
Ignorance is bliss.

[Asker]

Ignore him and don't answer him, you mean? I'm lowkey angry I want to say something without looking insecure.

[garykingg]

Clearly you are very insecure.

[garykingg]

Ignore the fact that he looks at women and let him look at other women.
Be chill with it.
That's what I meant when I said "ignorance is bliss"

[Asker]

Whatever. You don't answer the question. Good luck.

[garykingg]

You truly lack skills when it comes to choosing a partner.

Sad.

[Asker]

This website for ANSWERING questions. Stop criticizing me.

[Asker]

I never said anything about it. I play "unbothered" & confident but it piss me off deep down. I want him to stop

[garykingg]

He has ZERO respect for you.
He won't stop.

If I was in my shoes, and I didn't have an ounce of respect for you, I wouldn't care about how you feel either and continue doing what I'm doing.

[Asker]

Ok. I didn't answer him anyway. I don't know why even he kissed me

[Asker]

He kissed me and texted me for 2nd dinner date. I didn't answer him. I ghosted him. So I don't think I'm stupid as much as you think

[Asker]

Heyy? Answer @garykingg