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Looked at boyfriends phone, am I over reacting?

Last summer I found my boyfriend texting some girl from his area on Instagram, I was also pregnant at the time. When I confronted him about it he told me that was hid friend texting her off his Instagram and that he doesn't even no who the girl was. So I believed him. Fast forward to yesterday my boyfriends Facebook was still signed in on his old phone so I ended up having a look ( I know I shouldn't have) but it turns out he does no that girl and he was actually texting her back in December 2022, me and him met November 2022. My boyfriend was sending her selfies to his friend saying he was texting her. I feel really hurt and lied too , now I'm worried he was actually texting her last summer and it wasn't his friend. I also seen he was sending random girls messages on Facebook while iv been with him when he was drunk. He also said to a friend "you should meet my girlfriend before she gets fat" talking about when I was pregnant. I feel so hurt I dunno if I'm being silly or over the top. The way he was talking about me in some messages just felt like I wasn't important to him. He was writing to girls saying " wow your beautiful " wtc he said to a friend he didn't even want any more kids, while i was pregnant but me and him were trying? So that hurt me. Any advice?

Looked at boyfriends phone, am I over reacting?
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