Would you dump your current partner, if you found someone more attractive that was showing interest in you?

[ryanbas]

[Purpleronnie]

That might have been true of a younger more immature me but with age and experience also comes wisdom which tells me that anytime I should ever feel like that it’s likely because I’m focusing on some negative fragments of my present relationship. So instead of shifting your focus perhaps use that energy you have for “change” and re-focus it on your present relationship and yourself to be better and making your relationship better. I’m not saying this is you but people swap relationships for what they perceive as better all the time when really “they” are what’s dragging their present relationship down by constantly comparing to what they “think” might be with someone else.

[JacobJordan]

Ha I wouldn't know they were showing interest to begin with. That being said if I could tell absolutely not they had a chance when I was younger and not married they likely rejected me or would have. They didn't accept me when I didn't have a lot they aren't going to benefit from me having more than enough now.

[DishLady]

If we all did that we'd all be eternal swingers and there wouldn't be any committed relationships — but there would be more free clinics to deal with the STDs and psych clinics to deal with the broken hearts.


If you have a wishy-washy personality, don't be in a relationshp. It only makes whomever you're torturing with your indecisiveness grow frustrated and soured against the prospect of finding a real man.

[jennifer_bloom]

If I am totally happy, nobody better could take him away. If something is missing and I can’t choose loyalty, I won’t date him to start with, and this is before marriage. Once we marry, I won’t leave unless I’m abused or ignored.

[AviatorTom]

I might enjoy the extra attention, but I would not dump my partner. There's more to our relationship than that.

[WintersDaughter]

No 💀. That is so shallow and stupid. I don't care much for looks anyway, I care that my man loves and supports me. I care that he wants children and to feed them a good, healthy diet. I care if we agree on morals and values and how to raise our kids. A mans looks isn't even on the list of things that are important in a relationship, so why would I leave my boyfriend over it?

[Dinklex3]

No one is more attractive than my partner 🤷‍♀️

There might be someone good looking, like my partner, but not more attractive.

I don’t nitpick someone’s physical characteristics to compare and contrast. If he’s showing interest, I let him know I’m not interested.

[JustinTheGreat]

No. There is always going to be someone who’s “more attractive” out there.
if you really love your partner then something as silly as someone looking better wouldn’t be enough to break it off.

if that’s the case, then you don’t really love them to begin with. Or you’re with them for the wrong reasons

[worldscolide]

No, why would I ruin a perfectly good marriage?

Besides looks only get you so far, there has to be something else to keep each other interested.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Hell I suppose the mind is a private thing and people often think whatever they think and don't always convey what they actually desire or think.
Humans are crazy critters 🤯🤯😳

[RebelinSteel]

Nope I’m not a shallow twat. If you are with someone you are loyal to them, anyone doing that has major personal issues.

[mandyfire98]

I wouldn't think anybody else is more attractive honestly.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Not at all. First off I am extremely attracted to my wife, and secondly, there is more to a happy relationship than mere attraction!

[lorenzomichael]

Fuck no there’s no woman like the one I got. She beat the other chick ass. My girl has an attitude and I love it.

[PeachyPie93]

No a partner is safe. Some random hot person is a risk I can't be bothered to take.

[sage2021]

Not just for looks. But if we clicked better than the other guy, I'd go for it.

[itsclearlynicholas]

You're quite out there for a woman of 69 lol 😆

[JHAYES317]

@sage2021 if you clicked better then you should at least have the decency to dump your current partner first. No excuse to cheat

[sage2021]

@JHAYES317
Of course I would let the other one go! I don't cheat and I never have nor would I. It's not in my nature to cheat.
Now, with that said, I have been cheated on plenty of times.

[JHAYES317]

@sage2021 sorry to hear that, but good on you for being the bigger person

[OfMiceandMen]

No, I am not fickle like that. Why change your partner if you are happy with them.

[jshm2]

No. As that is not how "attraction" works.

[Nikki1989]

I couldn't care less about looks. What else has he got going for him?

[CrabCakes11]

No. I love my boyfriend

[Rangers]

No, I would not. Loyalty is a very important value to me

[Anonymous]

Doesn't that pretty much sum up what the younger generation of today is doing? Breaking up because "we want something better".

[Anonymous]

Yes. And she would do the same. So it's all good.

[Simslover92]

Definitely not.

[ryanbas]

Will you at least like to be a friend?

[Simslover92]

Nope. I wouldn't because they are showing interest in me.