Haven't heard from him in 2 days. Should I text him?

[abby1980]

We had a nice date but after our meet I haven't heard from him at all. Is this normal or am I ghosted?

[DaveJord]

I would not text him if I was you, but I cannot say that I would be right or wrong for doing or not doing that. I have had all types of nice dates with people that I have never heard from or seen again. Defies logic, right? We both talked about how we had such an amazing time and fun together, then nothing.

Is it normal? Unfortunately, yes in today's world it is very common and normal.

Are you being ghosted? Probably, I mean it definitely seems to be the most likely and probable scenario.

In my experience, which is more than i would like to admit, it's very common. I end up asking myself, was I supposed to take her home and have sex with her right there and then? Is that what she was expecting? I mean, we had that moment and seemed like it could of been a possibility. But by ending the date, with expectation there would be many more, was that too much pressure for her?

Was it a chemistry thing? I mean seemed to really be enjoying herself. Maybe she just got cold feet, out of fear of being hurt, or not being able to live up to my expectations?

All I do know is that I will never know. They just ghost. But after 27 years of being in relationships and dating, I know this. If the expectation was sex with no strings attached, then she did the right thing by not staying in contact with me. I am tired of being used like that.

[BIZARRE_TRUTH]

i am ashamed that there are people who think like you
(NO OFFENSE I PROMISE LET ME EXPLAIN)
i am ashamed that there are people who think that they should limit how they talk
or they should walk on eggshells
you're TOTALLY DOING IT ALL WRONG lololololol

you have to BE YOURSELF so that PEOPLE WHO LIKE YOU WILL LIKE YOU

if you curtail your natural behavior, THEN YOU ARE BEING FAKE
literally nobody liikes that, not even you like doing it. Nobody likes when you are fake.

so just call the guy and tell him how you feel
itll take 1 minute

then he either tells you the same or the opposite and you move to the next stage, towards each other , or away

make it quick and simple

the longer you wait the more you lose and the closer you are to death and you have wasted time doing nothing

[sage2021]

Don't get in touch with him.

I don't care how many years, even decades have passed, I don't care what's the cool thing, but it's still always that the girl waits for the guy to call or text after a date. That's the rule.

[rosemilk]

he's probably saying the same thing. "haven't heard from her in 2 days. should i text her?" and you two are just sitting there wondering...

if you want to text him, then text him. what you're doing is kind of teenager-ish.

[Account]

I would not. But do what you want.

[midnightmoon05]

lol…there is no attraction on his end… move on. It was an interview.
I have never taking first date as anything serious…

Yiu can call him if you feel it was a good date.
Date ends… call/text within an hr…

yiu: “I had a great time…”

him: I did as well…

yiu: would love to see you again…

or you message/call him… nothing within an hr… block him…

don’t out all your eggs in one basket

maybe things are different nowadays…

[DishLady]

Two whole days, huh? The dates were so earth shattering that you figured he’d call back right away… perhaps call you as he dropped you off to schedule the next date and tell you how unforgettable you are?


Guys don’t work that way. Don’t text or call him. Let him do his homework and call/text you. If he doesn’t… move on.

[SamIam96]

If you want to see what might develop, then yes, text him. He's probably wondering the same thing. "We had a nice date. Why hasn't she texted me."

You have nothing to lose. If he's ghosting, you'll know and move on. If he's also interested, you'll have plans for Saturday.

Post an update...

Have fun!

[bobalife]

Nuh, I think the latest wait is a week. But personally after 2-3 days I just moved on when not hearing from someone.

[whiskeyontherocks]

It’s a phone call or text not that complicated.
Just text him. If he payed for the date the least you could do is let him know you had a good time. Maybe ask him out for a second date.

[dustybiker2]

He might be seeing several people. I'd keep him as an option, but keep looking yourself.

[Chazmatazz269]

If you’re thinking about him, you should contact him. I’ve never understood those games.

[JosyJosy]

That doesn't sound too good. You can text but only once.

[Mrtcn01]

no dont call him.. after date a man does not call it means you are not attractive enough to call..

[VV3ZZY123]

Some say that men should wait at least 5 days before texting after a date.

[AnAmazingGuy]

What you guys do on date, the secret is hidden in it

[laly520]

ig u got ghosted

[KrakenAttackin]

You have probably been ghosted.

[RedInnocent69]

Sure. But don’t double text.

[Anonymous]

You can't talk to him?

[lorenzomichael]

Fuck him