Is that being shallow?
Simple: he's physically attracted to you. You might not be his usual type, but because he's attracted to your looks, he's willing to see where things go-
Take from that what you will. It's possible that even though you're not his personality type, he might get to know you and decide, "Hey, she's pretty cool. I should see this out..."
Or he might just be using you for sex, or until someone better comes along 😑
You said yourself you're not his usual type, so be cautious... definitely ask him why he's suddenly willing to give you a chance and see what he says.
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Either (1) he’s lonely and you’re conveniently available, (2) you are his type and he was just talking smack about “his type” to throw you off or (3) you’re not his type but he’s trying to branch out after a breakup — so you’re the rebound gal.
If it is then your gender is just as shallow. People see what they see in another person. You may not feel like you're alike personality wise and he may disagree. I've had several women feel like I was an exact match with them while I felt we had NOTHING in common.
So you figured out he just wants to fuck. Good for you.
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You are probably his type looks wise.
No it isn't. If you're not his type then why is he after you? You should tell him to go after his type and stop wasting your time.
Plenty of girls are not a guys type but if she’s hot enough AND has a good personality then his type can sure change quickly.
Because maybe you're his type looks wise and he just wanna hit that..
Men will take what they can get in the moment.
Just because a guy talks to you and checks you out doesn't mean he wants you. Did he ask you out?
You're assuming you know what his type is? If you don't like him don't lead him on? Find someone you like.
His needs are getting fulfilled until he is able to get the better one.
It depends, what are you using to base the hypothesis he isn't your type on?
I made compromises or settled because I was tired of the game still don’t regret it just know that I will never be able to do anything physically challenging with my girlfriend
I hate when people do this. It’s like they’re just settling.
How do you know you are not his type, and he probably finds you physically attractive. I don't think you are being shallow
How would any stranger know with this vague context
He wants you as a "placeholder" until he finds someone he really likes
Or maybe being horny…. lol
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